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Things Women Were Never Taught, 7: You Don't Have to Explain Every No

Somewhere along the way, many of us learnt that saying no wasn't enough. We had to have a good reason. So we explain. Read the full essay on Substack

Early, Quiet, Invisible: How Childhood Traumas Built My Daily Habits

I have spent most of my life navigating the world as a big girl, and when you grow up in a body that society constantly tells you is “too much,”…

Why We Choose the “Difficult” Ones [Dogs]… #adoptdontshop

Whenever people find out that our dogs, Chewy and Haseena, are reactive, we usually get the look. It’s a mix of pity, confusion, and a silent question: “Why would you…

What writing every week has quietly changed in me

I have written quite a few posts on Writing in the past, and this is one more along the similar lines… I moved cities. Started over in Bangalore.

Standing Tall: My Journey From Scouting Chairs to Owning the Room

For as long as I can remember, I have been the “big and tall” girl. While other girls seemed to effortlessly blend into the background or fit neatly into standard…

New city, same me —and adding to life..

Moai – lunch with a random group of women [2025] A cafe on highway [Mysore- Bangalore-2025] Veeragasi [BIC, 2026] Coffee at The Payanaa [Mystery book club meet 2026] She-Tales at…

The Art of the Clean Break: Why My 40s Are for Me, Not You

There is a profound, quiet power that washes over you when you hit your 40s. It’s not just a number; it’s a filter. Suddenly, the things that used to keep…

I was always there. It just never seemed to matter.

Some absences are only noticed in hindsight — and some presences never are….. There’s this particular kind of loneliness that doesn’t have a name yet.

Becoming Golden[song]: From Splitting Selves to Owning My Life

My new favorite song is Golden [Demon Hunters]. Fell in love with it the 1st time I heard it and that happens only when the lyrics resonate with me..

The Baggage We All Carry… Why kindness has to go both ways

Everyone you meet today is fighting a battle you can’t see. It’s a cliché at this point, printed on mugs and shared as inspirational quotes, but clichés become clichés because…

The Price of Speed: What Are We Losing in the Rush to Progress?

Every generation eventually asks itself the same question: Is the world getting worse, or am I just getting older? Our grandparents worried that cinema would corrupt the youth.

Why I Still Blog

This is more of a love letter to the internet habit I never managed to quit — and why I’m glad I didn’t… It is 2006.

Two Dogs, Four Ears, and a Whole Lot of Love: Welcome Home, Haseena

They say the best things in life happen when you stop overthinking and start following your gut and 2026 is off to an amazing start for us… Since October, we’ve…

The “Induction-Only” Experiment: A Year Without Gas in Bangalore

When we first landed in Bangalore a year ago, we were braced for the usual logistical hurdles. Top of the list? The dreaded gas connection.

The Genres That Kept Calling Me Back

Sometime back I wrote a post about the books I read in 2025…As much as I like to believe I’m an eclectic reader, 2025 made my patterns impossible to ignore.

2025: The Year Books Held My Hand

If I had to describe 2025 in one word, it would be read. I read more than I ever have before — over 70 books, give or take a few…

The Eldest Daughter Myth — And Why I Finally Let It Go

There’s an unspoken rule for eldest daughters in many Indian families: carry everything, expect nothing, and never put yourself first. I followed it for years.

Bookstores of Bangalore & need for libraries

I’ve always believed that bookstores tell you a great deal about a city. They reveal what it values, how much time it allows for wandering, and whether curiosity is encouraged…

Being Understanding Doesn’t Mean Being Taken for Granted

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to be understanding. It’s a word I’ve heard all my life — often as a compliment.

When Family Doesn’t Get It — And That’s Okay

The Push and Pull of Family Family is complicated — a mix of love, loyalty, and unspoken expectations. They’ve seen us grow, stumble, succeed, and change.

Thindi- Idly day, Begur

Every neighborhood has its hidden gems, those blink-and-you’ll-miss-it spots that serve up food far too good for their humble appearance. In the bustling area of Begur, Bangalore, one such spot…

Grandmaa Secret Haircare Haul: From Neem Combs to Curry Leaf Shampoo

Hello hello to all the glorious people out there who like me are facing hair fall, and other hair growth related issues! For someone who has never really paid extra…

This Monday… Keep going..

Thindi.. Babai Tiffins , HSR

Bangalore has no shortage of breakfast spots, but when you’re craving hearty South Indian fare with an Andhra twist, Babai Tiffins in HSR Layout is where you want to be.

South Bengaluru Unplugged: Tree-Lined Grid, Heritage Parks, Theatre, and Silk Avenues

If Central Bengaluru is where the city works and Old Bengaluru is where it traded, South Bengaluru is where it breathes. When my partner said we are moving to bangalore…

This Monday.. live by your rules..

Thindi.. S N Refreshments, J P Nagar

Some of the best South Indian food in Bangalore isn’t always served in swanky restaurants or Instagram-famous cafés—it’s hidden away in unassuming little joints. S N Refreshments in JP Nagar…

Lunching at Garden by Su, Bangalore

Yesterday afternoon, I met two friends from Chennai at lunch – Garden by Su in Bangalore —and what a lovely, grounding experience it turned out to be.

The Perpetual Worry of a Pet Parent (a.k.a. Did I Lock the Door?)

Anyone who shares their home with a pet knows there’s a special brand of anxiety that comes with being a pet parent. It’s not just about making sure they have…

A Magical Anniversary Evening at ITC Gardenia’s Cubbon Pavilion

Some evenings don’t just pass—they stay with you. They become memory markers of joy, love, and quiet luxury. Our anniversary dinner at ITC Gardenia, Bengaluru, was exactly that kind of…

Five Months of Bangalore Bliss: Escaping Summer and Embracing the Garden City

Can you believe it? It’s already been five months since we packed up our lives and made the leap to Bangalore! And what a run it’s been.

Bangalore’s Thindi Walk – C2C [ Cubbonpet to Chamrajpet]- 1

Sunday mornings in Bangalore are usually slow, sleepy affairs. But last weekend, we swapped our usual routine for something far tastier — a Thindi Walk led by Ajit Bhaskar.

Old-World Charm Meets Modern Culture: Cubbon Park and Chickpet

It has been a few months since we moved, and I am settling into a new routine and slowly finding my way around the city that was once so familiar.

The Eldest Daughter: Unpacking the Myth vs. Reality

For countless families around the world, the eldest daughter often holds a unique and often unspoken position. She’s frequently the “responsible one,” the “mini-parent,” and the perceived pillar of strength.

From Solo Wanderer to Itinerary Whisperer: Your Personal Travel Planner for India

There’s a certain magic that comes with a solo trip. It’s not just about seeing new places; it’s about seeing yourself in a new light.

From Self-Doubt to Unapologetically Me: A Decade of Growth

It’s funny how you can look back at a photo from ten years ago and not just see a different face/body, but a completely different person.

Gifting Made Fun: My Bigsmall.in Haul + Special Father’s Day Picks

If you’re on the hunt for unique and thoughtful gifts, Bigsmall.in offers an eclectic mix of quirky, functional, and heartfelt items perfect for any occasion.

Dinner at PHRA NAKHON, Thai Cafe [Koramangala]

Dinner, Dialogue & Thai Delights – A Night Out at PHRA NAKHON with The Weekenders Some dinners are just about the food. And then there are evenings like the one…

One Year Later: A Journey of Strength, Survival, and Starting Anew

It’s hard to believe it’s been almost a year. A year of unexpected turns, silent battles, loud breakdowns, and quiet resilience. A year of digging deep into corners of myself…

Writing is lonely — but it doesn’t have to be

There’s a romantic notion about writers — hunched over laptops or notebooks in quiet corners, surrounded by the sound of their thoughts. And while there’s truth in that, what’s often…

A Crafty Haul of Happiness from iTokri: Handcrafted Treasure Trove

You know that feeling when you discover a place that feels like a wonderland for your soul? That’s exactly what happened when I stumbled upon iTokri – a colourful, heartwarming…

The Peck, Koramangala, Bangalore

There’s something magical about stumbling upon a space that instantly lifts your mood. The Peck, tucked away in the vibrant lanes of Koramangala, Bangalore, is one such gem.

Thoughtful Hampers from The Zappy Box

A mother’s love is truly unique—unmatched, unconditional, and deeply personal. This Mother’s Day, take a moment to celebrate the incredible women who’ve nurtured, supported, and inspired you.

The Mara Crossbody Bag from Hie Is the Ultimate Mother’s Day Gift

Mother’s Day is around the corner. If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably spent hours scrolling through gift guides and Pinterest boards, looking for something meaningful yet practical—something that says…

Nurturing Comfort and Care: A Deep Dive into Cocoon Care’s Baby Essentials

Welcoming a newborn is a beautiful, life-changing event—and finding the right gift to celebrate this moment can feel overwhelming. A friend of mine had a baby girl few months back…

Heal to Move: Why Identifying Your Triggers Is the First Step to Growth

Last evening met a bunch of people, among who was a friend i’d made online few years back and eventually we ended up in the same city and met as…

Our Afternoon at the HMT Museum: Time flew by~

Every weekend we have been trying to do something different, be it visit a new store for our grocery shopping or a club. That weekend, we knew heading to HMT…

Zoomin Into Style: Fun, Functional & Totally You & the ideal place for personalized gifts for dad!

Hey there, fellow enthusiasts of all things personalized and stylish! If you’re on the hunt for unique, customized goodies that scream ‘you’, then let me introduce you to the wonderland…

Studio Ghibli Popup- Bento Bento, Bangalore

If like us you crave those delectable ramen bowls and cakes that practically leap off the screen in beloved Studio Ghibli films… Then get ready for a treat [in this…

Thindi… Airlines Hotel – breakfast [Bangalore]

Tucked away in the heart of Bangalore, Airlines Hotel is more than just a place to eat—it’s a legacy. Known for its old-world charm, open-air seating, and an undeniable whiff…

When Change Comes Knocking (and You Didn’t Order It)

We often talk about change like it’s a fresh page or a clean slate. The start of something new. A choice. But what about the kind of change you didn’t…

I asked chatGPT about me

Work: Crafting Stories That Connect As a freelance content specialist and digital storyteller, I thrive on shaping narratives that engage, inform, and inspire. Whether it’s crafting content strategies for businesses…

Echoes of Love, Whispers of Peace [poem]

Once, love bloomed like a gentle tide, Affection ran deep, no need to hide. Hearts entwined, soft whispers stayed, In warm embraces, memories laid. Then came the drift, slow yet…

The Evolution of Indian Railways: From Paper Tickets to Digital Convenience

Egmore Station I’ve been travelling by train for as long as I can remember and love train journeys. Infact, when we lived in Tirunelveli, we used to take the train…

Life advice to 20 year olds…

Over the last few days, got to engage with a few who were in their 20s and that is when it struck me that I had quite a few things…

The Journey to a New Home

Moving to a new city has been one of the most profound transitions of my life—a complex emotional journey blending anxiety, adventure, and excitement into a transformative experience.

Time to say bye bye Pune…

Stepping Into the Unknown: A New City, New Challenges, and a Hint of Excitement Moving to a new city is like opening a book without knowing the plot.

Happy 3rd Birthday Chewy…

Celebrating Three Years of Love: Life with Our Indie Pup Three years ago, a scruffy, bright-eyed Indie pup trotted into our lives and changed them forever.

People and the Relationship Dynamics

The Different People in Our Contact List: Understanding the Dynamics of Our Relationships In today’s digital age, our contact lists are brimming with names, each representing different types of relationships.

Happiness & a sense of belonging

Finding Happiness in a Space Away from What Was Once Home: Embracing the Present When the Past No Longer Exists The concept of “home” is one of the most powerful…

Time to Stop Saying Sorry

Sorry Is all that you can say Years gone by and still Words don’t come easily Like sorry, like sorry Know this song? these are the lyrics from the song…

I Am Every Woman: Redefining Beauty Beyond Standards

I love the song by Whitney Houston from Bodyguard movie… I’m every woman, bold and free, In the mirror, I see me— Not defined by the world’s mould, I stand…

Post for all considering adopting/bringing home a pet

The Lifelong Commitment: Understanding the Responsibilities of Dog Adoption Imagine coming home to a wagging tail, wet nose, and unconditional love. Sounds perfect, right? While adopting a dog can bring…

This Monday… Dont take it personally

Happy New Year.. welcome 2025~!!

🎉 Welcome 2025! 🎉 As the calendar turns to a brand-new year, it’s the perfect time to reflect, reset, and embrace the opportunities ahead. Let’s make 2025 a year of…

Sweet Escapes: Strawberry Picking & Panchgani Tales with Western Routes [Dec2024]

There’s something undeniably magical about the strawberry season in Panchgani. The cool breeze rolling off the Sahyadris, green valleys stretching into the distance, and that first bite into a sun-warmed…

Embracing the Wind: My Journey as a Motorcycle Pillion

There’s something indescribably exhilarating about being on the back of a motorcycle. The wind whipping past, the world blurring at the edges, and that inexplicable feeling of freedom that comes…

Humans and Technology: Are We Losing Ourselves to AI?

I just came across a twitter thread where a guy mentioning meeting a kid from Stanford who after the initial round of hi hello, was struggling to find words.

This Monday … Live for YOU

Burnout: It’s Not Just About Work

Burnout. A term we’ve all heard, sometimes casually tossed around in conversations, yet profoundly misunderstood. It’s often associated solely with the workplace—too many deadlines, unmanageable workloads, and toxic environments.

Skywatch Friday… Cold mornings

Skywatch Friday.. Winter & colours

Peri Menopause & Women in 40s!

Understanding Perimenopause in Your 40s: Symptoms, Moods, Hormones, and Beyond For many women in their 40s, the body begins a natural transition known as perimenopause – the period leading up…

Setting Boundaries with Family and Others: Why It’s Essential and How to Do It

Setting boundaries is a vital skill that many people struggle to develop, especially when it comes to family or close relationships. Boundaries help define what is acceptable for us, preserving…

Arambam: A Millet-Centric Breakfast Haven [Pune]

Mini breakfast- Ragi idli, Masala Dosai, Millet pongal, Millet Kheer, Sambar and peanut chutney Ragimalt Ragi Poori and chole [ there was also Buttermilk, not in photo] Ever since moving…

A Night at 1st Brewhouse: A Vibrant Shift in Vibes

On Friday evening, my partner got a call to host trivia night at 1st Brewhouse at The Corinthians, all the way across town. Since i’ve not been there, decided to…

IncrEdibles meet – Win Son Presents a Taiwanese American Cookbook

As a member of the cookbook club in Pune, each month brings a new culinary adventure, and this October was no exception. We were excited to dive into a book…

Why It’s Perfectly OK to Switch Off and Take a Day Off

In today’s fast-paced world, it often feels like we’re constantly running on a never-ending treadmill. Emails pile up, to-do lists grow longer, and the mental load of daily life can…

We All Carry Baggage — But It’s What We Do With It That Matters

Let’s be honest: none of us enters a relationship as a blank slate. We bring memories—some sweet, some sharp. We bring fears—some justified, some exaggerated.

Why Every Dog Needs Socialization Training

Dogs are social creatures. They thrive on interaction with both humans and other dogs. However, not all dogs instinctively know how to behave appropriately in social situations.

Finding your space in a new city/town

When you move to a new city, you don’t just carry your suitcases — you carry a mix of excitement, nerves, and the quiet hope that this place will someday…

Cafe Kathaa, F C Road, Pune

Ever since moving to Pune, am constantly looking for new places to check out, work from and catch up with people at. The latest to add in the list is…

Indie Dogs: The Unique Charm of these Dogs

Have you ever considered adopting an indie dog, also known as a mixed breed or mutt? These unique canines often get overlooked in favour of purebreds, but they possess a…

Another Year Older, Another Year Wiser..

Another birthday has come and gone, and as I reflect on the past year, I can’t help but feel a mix of gratitude and anticipation.

Embracing the Role of the Eldest Daughter

Be warned: Long post ahead… Growing up as the eldest daughter is more than a thing of pride, plus I was also the only child for 12.5yrs before my sister…

Things I Wish We Had Been Taught in School

School is a place where we’re supposed to learn the foundations for our future. But often, the curriculum is so focused on academics that it neglects other essential life skills.

Structured 30-day “healing from toxic family” roadmap

As promised, here is the 2nd post – structured 30-day “healing from toxic family” roadmap. Read the first post here This roadmap blends emotional work, self-care, and practical steps so…

Exploring Pune – Restaurants -3

If you’re in Camp (MG Road, East Street, Dhole Patil Road, and surrounding areas), here are some of the best places for bakeries, chaat, snacks, and vada pav.

Pani Puri – Chennai Vs Pune

Pani puri, a beloved street food across India, is known for its burst of tangy, spicy, and savoury flavors. But as I discovered in Pune, even the most iconic dishes…

The 40s- Mastering the Art of Letting Go

I have always been someone who kept to herself, led a private life [not announcing her moves or life updates online]. Heck, I wouldn’t even share my travel plans even…

Breaking Free: Steps to Heal from a Toxic Family

Growing up, we’re taught that family is everything. But what happens when your family becomes the very source of your pain? I once spoke to a friend who would tense…

Distance Heals & Finding Happiness [Narcissistic Parents]

Growing up with narcissistic parent[s] often feels like living inside a hall of mirrors—your reality is constantly distorted, your emotions are minimized, and your worth is measured only in how…

Breaking Barriers: Everyday Taboos around Women

I had written a post sometime back around periods and how there were hard customs followed at home here. This post is more about the taboos for women in a…

Birthday, Friends & Coffee outings..

Sunday, July 7th, was a Sunday and I was thankfully home. It was Partha’s birthday, and what made it special was that it was the day we finally managed to…

Exploring Pune – Restaurants -2

If you’re looking for quick bites and snacks in Pune, here’s a list of the best places for samosas, sandwiches, dhokla, and more across the city: 1.

July- Pune’s Monsoon Madness

It has been three years since I moved here, to Pune. Coming from Chenai, where rains make guest appearances every now & again or lash out breaking the city in…

Shake things up…

There have been days when I felt very Blah.. But then i didnt really know why I was feeling that way and then it hit me- I was going through…

When Life Gets Tough: Tapping Your Inner Reservoir of Willpower

Life as an adult: it comes with independence, yes, but also its fair share of challenges. From career hurdles to relationship struggles, there are times when the going gets tough.

The Ripple Effect: How Childhood Trauma Shapes Us

Mental health. It’s a term we hear thrown around a lot these days, but its importance can’t be overstated. Our mental well-being affects everything from our relationships to our physical…

Beyond Labels: Who Am I Really?

The question came to me on an ordinary afternoon, like a quiet knock on the door of my mind: If I set aside relationships, education, and achievements — what remains?

Communication Is More Than Just Words: Intent vs. Impact

We’ve all been there. You say something with the best of intentions — maybe to offer help, give feedback, or lighten the mood — only to find the other person…

Exploring Pune – Restaurants -1

Pune, a city rich in cultural diversity, offers a plethora of dining options catering to various culinary preferences. Here’s a curated list of notable restaurants across different cuisines, complete with…

Battle with the body – XXI- Education and awareness missing.

When “Just Eat Less” Isn’t Enough: Why Family Needs to Get Educated on Weight We’ve all been there. A loved one is overweight, and the dinner table conversation becomes a…

Working from Coffee shops, Pune edition

I written a post earlier about the whole coffee shop culture, which included working from them, and what it meant for me. You can read the post here.

This Monday… Focus on yourself..

Reading- My Love for Psychology Books

I have always been fascinated with human beings and their behaviour- regular and under specific situations. So, it was quite a natural shift in my reading habits too.

Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) in Men

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a complex condition characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.

Life Lessons (and a Few Chew Toys) From My Indie Pup

Chewy is my second Indie dog.. The earlier one i had adopted was Floppy who lived with us for good 15yrs before saying Bye Bye ….

Finding Your Tribe: How Women in Their 40s Can Build Amazing New Friendships

Life in your 40s can be an amazing whirlwind. You’re likely juggling career goals, family dynamics, and maybe even a desire for personal growth. But sometimes, in the midst of…

New-Age Parenting: Nurturing Young Minds in a Changing World

Was talking to a friend who has a toddler, and she spoke about how different things are now versus when we were growing up, or even our siblings… And then…

The Art of Letting Go—and Letting In

We often hear about the importance of letting go—releasing the past, shedding old patterns, and freeing ourselves from what no longer serves us. But there’s another side to this journey…

Unveiling the Different Masks of Narcissism

Narcissism – the term gets thrown around a lot these days. But what many people don’t realize is that narcissism can manifest differently in men and women.

Minimalism & Money-Saving in the Indian Context

What is Minimalism? Minimalism is a lifestyle that focuses on living with less, prioritizing quality over quantity, and being intentional about what we own and consume.

Finding Space to Breathe: How Distance Can Help with Toxic Family

Family, the cornerstone of our lives. But sometimes, that very foundation can become cracked and unstable. Dealing with toxic family members can be a constant drain on your mental and…

Love’s Labyrinth: Appreciation, Quality Time, and Keeping the Spark Alive

Relationships are beautiful journeys, but like any adventure, they have their twists and turns. Am in my first serious relationship and every day is a learning.

Nobody Tells You This: A Woman’s Life in Stages

Life throws a lot at us, but for women, it feels like we get a whole different game. Periods, cramps, sex (good, bad, and confusing!), and then, on the horizon…

Breaking the cycle of being a Giver

Have you ever felt like the designated “giver” in your relationships, friendships, or even your career? You’re always the one offering help, solving problems, and making sacrifices.

Battle with the body – XX- Self-confidence & plus size.

Curvy Brides Boutique: Where Confidence Meets the Perfect Dress Even though am not into the whole marriage or wedding, I Love the wedding dress-based show series- “Say Yes to the…

More Than Just a Meal: Unveiling the Indian Tradition of Floor Seating and Hand-Eating

For many, the image of a family gathered on the floor, hands working magic with fragrant curries and fluffy rice, paints a vibrant picture of Indian culture.

Celebration of different kinds of Love..

Love. It’s a word whispered in poetry, shouted in protests, and sung across millennia. Yet, for something so universally experienced, love remains a beautiful enigma.

The Tapestry of Time: Why Some Friendships Fade and Others Flourish

I’ve been spending the last two days with a dear friend, one who’s been in my life since our high school days. Heck, we were 4 of us, who stayed…

This Monday… Speak your mind

Mothers & daughters..

I enjoy watching these wedding dress shows [TLC] and one of them is excusive to curvy girls. The boutique is run by two women who do an amazing job helping…

Ditch the Drama: Why Not Taking Things Personally Is Your Superpower

We’ve all been there: that stinging comment, the friend’s dismissive tone, the coworker’s barbed criticism. It happens in a flash – our heart races, our cheeks burn, and suddenly, the…

Growing up & Family Connections

A conversation I had with my aunts [both live abroad & have been away for quite a few years. They do visit India, and their families once or twice a…

Top 10 things to do when dealing with a Narcissistic parent

Over the last few years, I’ve been writing quite a few blog posts around this topic – “Dealing with a narcissistic parent”. Here is one that has ten points that…

When Adults Filter Family Through Opinions

Human behaviour has always always fascinated me. And among those is how one person influences another – be it an opinion they have about a person or place, food, clothes…

When Catching Up with “Friends” Feels Like Coming Home

There’s a magic to meeting special friends. It’s a reunion of laughter lines shared, secrets whispered, and adventures etched in memory. Like stepping into a sun-drenched room after a long…

Homeward Bound, But Unmoored…

The wheels touch down, and I breathe. I have landed in what used to be “Home”. Or at least, that’s what the GPS claims. Yet, as I step out into…

Leaving Your Indie Pup at Boarding, Worry-Free

Boarding our dog was a new experience for me. I have not done it in the past and so was sceptical the very first time we decided to try one…

Indie Dogs: Decoding Their Behaviour and Building Trust

Indie dogs, also known as desi dogs, are a vibrant and diverse group of canines found throughout India. They come in all shapes and sizes, with unique personalities and quirks.

Friendships and expiry dates -2

I had written an earlier post couple of years back about how some friendships do come to an end and have reached their expiry date.

Navigating the Complexities of Narcissistic Parenthood & Saving your sanity

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. When a parent exhibits these traits…

Confessions of a Blog-aholic in a Disappearing World

This post is more of a ‘Confessions of a Blogger in the Age of Fleeting Likes: Why I Still Write, Even When No One’s Watching’ Remember the golden age of…

Conversations and communication- Part 2

In my earlier post, I had shared the importance of having conversations with people in your life, especially family. In this one, I want to talk about having difficult conversations…

This Monday… Be a strong confident independent woman!

This Monday.. Be confident

There have been many who ask why I do these Monday posts.. Well, initially I started it as a way of just sharing what was on my mind with the…

Love’s Little Gestures: Simple Ways to Show You Care [Relationships]

Ever since I got into a relationship, it has been a journey- plenty of unlearning, breaking the conditioning I’ve grown up with and of course working on building the relationship…

Taking your dog for a walk [in an apartment]

I’ve had a dog at home for the last 20yrs or so, and while earlier in Chennai the house was an independent bungalow, I now live in an apartment, in…

How to Build Communication in a Relationship

I have been writing about the importance of Conversations & Communication between people[family] & with reference to relationship as well, but then there is so much to talk about, right?

Letting Go: The Grace in Accepting Change

A forward I received on chat, that just makes too much sense… Sharing it here.. There was a time when we believed we had control over everything—our days, our children…

Coffee shop culture

Coffee shop culture in India has been growing rapidly in recent years. Cafes and coffee shops are no longer just places to grab a quick cup of coffee or tea…

Conversations and communication- Part 1

Do you belong to a family that loves to talk, share & communicate? Well, I come from a family where they would rather avoid talking if that meant they are…

Journaling and me

Journaling is a great way to process your emotions, reflect on your experiences, and track your progress over time. But for some people, journaling can be difficult or even impossible.

10 Essential Ingredients for a Thriving Relationship

Relationships are beautiful, complex, and ever-evolving journeys. While there’s no guaranteed formula for success, there are certain key ingredients that contribute to a thriving relationship.

Things to Keep in Mind When Adopting an Indie Dog

Collage of indie dogs I’ve come across during my travels You might be someone who loves dogs and has always dreamt of having one at home.

This Monday.. Know that it’s ok

Navigating Two Vibrant Cities: Contrasting Life in Pune and Chennai

Whenever I meet someone new and they ask where I am am from, and I respond “Chennai”, they gape and then they go on to ask how different life is…

This Monday.. be like the pencil

Years back when I chanced upon Like the Flowing River” by Paulo Coelho, [ I think this was his 2nd book that I read], I came upon this section that…

The Quiet Magic of Routine

We don’t often think of routine as something worth celebrating. It feels mundane, almost dull – the same breakfast at the same table, the morning walk on the same road…

Live a Meaningful Life and not one attached to Material Things

In today’s world, it’s easy to get caught up in pursuing material possessions. We’re constantly bombarded with messages/ads telling us that we need the latest gadgets, clothes, cars, and memberships…

Marriage – the be-all and end-all of life!!?

“When did marriage become the beginning and end of it all for a girl?” [I want to scream this from the top of the world] I have had this question…

This Monday… start fresh

The French Window Patisserie,Koregaon Park, Pune

Ever since moving to Pune, I have been exploring cafes both in and around my locality and in other parts of the city as well..

One language, One Country or not?

I had shared an incident that happened a decade+ back here. A conversation with some friends last week got me thinking about the language situation in our country and that…

Being mindful in life..

I’ve always been a curious observer—of people, patterns, energy, and the silent weight words can carry. But it was over a decade ago, in a moment that felt like a…

Minimalist… The transition! 

Growing up, I honestly did not want much. I was not one to ask my parent for this and that and more. Often am unsure if it was just me…

Travel is the best test for any relationship

During our recent road trip to Chennai & back, we spoke about a range of things, one of which was the whole travelling together & how it is the biggest…

Breakfast at The Rameshwaram Cafe

There has been a constant buzz online [Instagram & Twitter] about this new cafe in Bangalore, and how they were so good and always crowded etc.

Spending time with yourself, by yourself

We live in a world where it is easy to get overwhelmed and stressed. Our days are jam-packed with activities, obligations, and responsibilities that we can’t seem to find any…

2022, The wrap up!

Come December, my mood goes haywire. I am happy one minute, and sad/glum the next. The month over the years has left me feeling all sorts of restless.

Skywatch Friday.. Shades of The Sky

The varied colours of the sky across November from our balcony..I love waking up every morning and looking right outside the window, watching the sky light up slowly….

Vivo V 25 – 12Gb 256Gb phone!

Disclaimer – Am no gadget reviewer though I love gadgets and am always looking to check/play with new ones that come out into the market, primarily phones & laptops.

Recipe and a story… Our Family’s Salna

If you were to go out and tell someone you had salna with parotta, they would immediately ask for the name of the place where you had it..In the South…

Dogs & Me

The very 1st dog who came into buy life was Sheeba, a pup we had adopted from our neighbour [their dog had a big litter], but unfortunately she didn’t live…

Nashik.. Weekend getaway!

Nashik.. Weekend Getaway For the long weekend, we decided to get away, the first official holiday for the three of us together, and we began looking for options.

Don’t really need a reason to visit Chennai. Just come!! 

It’s a city that will always have a special place in my heart, even though I don’t live there anymore. It became my home back in 1990 and I wasn’t…

Procrastination & digging deeper..

[Source: The real reasons you procrastinate at work – Work Life by Atlassian] Are you guilty of procrastination? And getting yelled at by clients/family/friends for being tardy or incompetent.

Pune & Pet friendly spaces

While this is something I hadn’t really thought about until recently, it is now playing on my mind almost all the time. During my recent trip to US, I saw…

The Heart of the Matter: Why Communication is the Lifeline of Every Relationship

In the messy, beautiful chaos of relationships, communication stands as both compass and anchor. It’s what allows love to be understood, conflicts to be resolved, and connection to deepen.

Answer to the point..

Why do most people have difficulty answering to the point? why do they have to share their opinion, give suggestions and in fact sometimes don’t even answer the question you…

This Monday… Take off.

Navigating the Role of Caregiver: A Grandchild’s Journey

I moved in with my grandparents when i was pursuing my MBA, mainly out of convenience. My parents apartment had 2 bedrooms, and we were 2+2+2 so you an imaging…

[Travel stories] Travelling & strangers

Was chatting with an online friend about travelling solo and people we meet during our travels and that is when it struck me that more than once, have had strangers…

Redefining Connection in Your 40s

Moving to a new city in your 40s is not the same as doing it in your 20s or 30s. You’re not looking for wild nights out, roommate bonding over…

Sharing the load

This has been on my mind for a while – much before I got into a relationship.. I have always wondered why it was the woman who held fort at…

New beginnings

New beginnings.. Some of you know it, some of you don’t – I am referring to the fact that I moved to Pune and it’s been about 8- 9 months.

Why are people..

Why are people always trying to one UP the other? what do they get out of it? is it is an ego rush or a power trip or do they…

Battle with the body – XXI- Disorders

Today morning while scrolling through twitter, came upon this tweet thread and it blew my mind away.. It is about Body dysmorphic disorder [BDD], a real disorder where people are…

This Monday.. busting myths around self-care

Have a check list/journal and make sure to put yourself FIRST..

Battle with the body – XX- Perceptions!

So, its been a while since I wrote about this topic… Doesn’t mean things are happy dandy and people have changed. I guess I have just found that it is…

Habits.. No phones during meals.

So my uncle has always had this “no mobile phone on the dining table while eating” policy. Something that I’ve seen him implement about 20-25 years ago & he continues…

[Freelancer] Saying NO to projects/clients

I became a freelancer back in 2006.. I had no clue what I was getting into, just that I had a few leads who were willing to give me projects.

This Monday… Inspire others!

This Monday.. Take care of YOU first…

Past baggage and present life..

Years ago somebody introduced me to Louis hay and her book You Can Heal yourself. While the initial chapters in the book didn’t really resonate with me, the last few…

This Monday… stay focussed~

This Monday.. Find your tribe..

Connections and changes..

Things have changed over the last few months and there are times when I ponder over family and people and the way they think.. After a couple of months of…

5 Google Docs hacks to save the day!

As a content creator, I am constantly creating documents – word, excel, presentations and beyond. And for all of them, I use documents to take nIf like me, you rely…

This Monday. pause and reflect

Where are you in this?

Good things come to those who wait…

Good things do come to people who wait. Oh yes they do~ But good things also come to those who make things happen, who dont just sit and wait… 🙂…

This Monday… Learn to read people & keep only those matter!

This Monday.. tell the universe

This Monday… Hold your Head high

Skywatch Friday… Clouds and Mist..

The sky today morning… Uff.. beautiful~ All are mobile clicks with a lot of effort [ well, Nature had done 90% of the job, but i had squeeze the camera…

This Monday… be open to new experiences

Ordering in the new normal

March 2020 is when the world changed, life as we knew it ceased to exist~ News of Covid-19, the pandemic had us all trapped at home afraid and with almost…

Skywatch Friday… As the sun sets

This Monday… Focus on YOU

Skywatch Friday – Different Moods, different shades

I love standing in the balcony and gazing at the sky… watching the clouds glide along, sometimes the sun peeks out and other times dark clouds are all I see.

The mother wound

Yesterday, while scrolling through Twitter found a tweet by a friend “TIL (healing) mother wound”.. I got curious cos I have been dealing with wounds and baggage related to my…

Sinful – BeeTee’s Melt Chocolate

“All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.” ~ Charles M. Schulz Feeling down and low, have a piece of chocolate Feeling excited and…

365 days gone by…

Birthday wishes do come true… I started this tradition few years back, heck it’s been almost a decade – I would travel and disappear for my birthday – invariably alone.

This Monday.. Celebrate life

What is the one thing you are celebrating today? It could something as silly as having the day off – no calls/mails to deal with 😀

This Monday… remembering people

Madras day … Aug 22nd

Chennai turns 382 years as the city celebrates ‘Madras Day’ today. It was on August 22, 1639, that the village of Madrasapatnam was purchased by the East India Company from…

Maid tales -1

I have moved towns. Moved from the South to the Northern part of India. Moved from living with family to living with a friend… I am all settled in and…

This Monday… Try something new

Taking the Leap

Living the life you have dreamt of often means shaking things up, making big changes, and taking decisions that will have a major impact on your life – not just…

Self-care- Put yourself first

Why is putting yourself so hard? Why is doing something for yourself difficult and not something that comes naturally to you? Is it because all your life you’ve been conditioned…

#floppytales.. Life with pets..

I did not grow up around dogs, heck there was barely any talk about pets. In fact I don’t think I had friends who had dogs of fish for any…

This Monday… Practice Gratitude

You are…

You are smart, but we don’t care for your opinions You are responsible, but we don’t give two hoots for your needs You are an anchor, but we don’t give…

This Monday.. take a break

Cool link to check out – https://themostefficient.com/50-ways-to-take-a-break-infographic-brain-breaks-for-adults/

Having a system.. an order..

There is a time to play and time to work, Time to swing and time to shine Time to chill and time to unwind… Do you have a system/ schedule…

Yes or No please..

Instance 1: Me: Have you had morning coffee? She: Well, I woke up at 4, brushed my teeth, but it was still dark out, so went back to bed.

This Monday.. Just be

Source: https://tinybuddha.com/fun-and-inspiring/its-okay-to-just-be/

I hear em all

As I sit here Typing away on my laptop I hear the sound of the drill I hear voices I hear commands I hear em all And yet I don’t…

Do what you want… or not..

Thanks to covid, being cooped up at home+ mind being in a world of its own, a lot of thinking and self-introspection has been happening.

The last year…

Last year 22nd March [Sunday] was a full lockdown and then from 24th onwards we had the partial lockdown… We learned to step out of our homes only for ‘absolute…

This Monday.. Take out time for yourself

Source: https://www.lifehack.org/articles/featured/how-to-find-time-for-yourself.html

Test of time.. Memory..

Do you remember what you had for dinner two years ago today? What about two weeks ago? Most of you might not have a clue..

This Monday…. Pick your battles..

Hotel Mercure, Oragadam

Did you know there is a Hotel called ‘Mercure‘ all the way across town? I must admit I hadn’t heard of the hotel before, but curiosity got the better of…

Step Away From Work

Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment, and to either of these ends, there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence…

Equal at all times..

A friend: Had a big order to fulfill and was able to do it with few minutes to spare. Me: Yayy, am so proud of you She: it was 50%…

This Monday.. Choose your friends..

Single and Independent…not acceptable

This is a post that has been sitting in the drafts for a while now.. Decided I was gonna publish it, and apt considering today is Women’s Day~~ Warning: Long…

This Monday… Look for the silver lining

Back in 5th or 6th std, our class teacher came up with this rule that every week one of us would take turns to write a proverb on the board…

New Pubs in Town… Chennai

After being cooped up at home for nearly 9-10months, I finally began venturing out.. Wore a mask, carried sanitizer, and took autos [ I thought autos were better than cabs…

Just listen…

Source – https://inspiring-possible.com/the-art-of-listening/ “The art of conversation is the art of hearing as well as being heard…” This post is about just listening – don’t talk, don’t comment, don’t jump…

Fathers and daughters …

Couple of days back was at a friend’s wedding, fairly early in the morning .. it is a small crowd, a cozy & intimate wedding and it was just lovely..Among…

This Monday… Stop judging~

Books and Reading

Madras Connemera Library.. Autographed books, more books & my bookshelf “So please, oh please, we beg, we pray, Go throw your TV set away, And in its place, you can…

This Monday.. Don’t hold back..

Yes, please speak your mind ~~

Speaking your mind

Source:https://awesomelifetips.com/speak-your-mind/ Do you speak your mind or hold your tongue? I belong to a family where speaking your mind is frowned upon, heck whoever is around you will either leave…

This Monday… Stay true to yourself

Read more on this – https://www.psychologytoday.com/za/blog/ambigamy/201802/just-be-true-yourself-not-quite

I have changed

And once the storm is over you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is…

This Monday… be present..

Breathe in- Breathe out – do this for a few mins as you start the day. The world can wait.. Pay attention to your senses when eating/drinking/walking and enjoy the…

I am untouchable

You can’t touch this [ sofa and other furniture with fabric on it] You can’t touch this [ vessels apart from what I was served in] You can’t touch this…

With every passing year

With every passing year, I see a change in me I see myself grow I see a sense of calm set in With every passing year, I see my wants…

Me and my habits..

Habit #1 I read a blog post, a poem by a friend sometime back. I read it once, I re-read it and left a comment like I always do […

Bread & Chocolate, Chennai

Entrance Spanish Latte [Subko] The Sourdough sandwiches -Pumpkin Patch & Spicy Mushroom Americano [Subko] Pain au chocolat Auroville’s popular Bread & Chocolate is now in Chennai.

This Monday.. Be you.. Be Proud~

Battle with the body – XIX- plus size shopping -I

If you told me a decade ago that I would have a wardrobe that had plenty of T-shirts, tops, jeans, pants and dresses, I would have laughed at you and…

Birthday at home

There is always a first time, and this year was one such, for the birthday.. When I look back, I have been travelling on my Birthday for the last 6…

This Monday.. a departure & some words..

How do you coping with the death of a friend? One that you knew for years, did not meet or chit chat often, but you knew was around and you…

The boy, the mole, the fox and the horse by Charlie Mackesy

“Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.”― Eleanor Roosevelt Every now and then one stumbles upon a book that leaves you completely spellbound.

Fine Dining brought home…Part I

“If the mountain will not come to Muhammad, then Muhammad must go to the mountain”.. what is the point of this quote here? well, read on… March 22nd, we have…

The way we are..

Agree? I have a few questions for you…. How are you doing today? What’s on your plate? Are there more than 10 items or under?

[Skywatch] Cloudy with splash of rain

There has been such a drastic change in the weather, it has been raining on & off the past few days and we are rejoicing… It feels so good to…

[Skywatch] From the terrace

Last evening, I went up to the terrace cos the ACT guys wanted to sort out the cable, and install a connection at home. While the rep was busy doing…

[Skywatch] From the garden

I know I know, this Skywatch Friday profile has gone missing, but I do miss posting on Friday about the gorgeous skies I have seen… So I am bringing it…

Conversations with strangers…

Sometime back I had written about the joy of conversations, how only a few are good at it, most others stutter & there is nothing but awkward silence between strained…

Just checking in

How are you doing? All ok with you? These are messages that people in my circle would have gotten from me on & off over the last few months… Not…

Travel & food- Part I

It is no secret that I love to travel, and I have been fortunate to travel quite a bit over the last couple of years.

Experiment with foods – Noodles with veggies

Over the years, have learnt to play around with food- textures, flavours, build layers.. I know all this sounds like something you hear on a TV cookery show, but that’s…

Habits and routines

We are all creatures of habit at the end of the day, whether you like to admit or not… I used to be a high-on-the-edge-OCD-things-need-to-be-perfect kind of person, but that…

[Guest post] SPRING: A HOPE AND PROMISE, OF SURVIVAL AND RENEWAL

A guest post on the blog after ages… This one is by a dear friend/ Wildlife traveller, a woman who has strong thoughts and a kind heart- Shabnam of Wildlife…

Destination Weddings… The In thing~!

Our cab drove into the entrance making its way near Galle fort when I spotted a group of women all identically dressed, giggling away.. Few yards from them, I spotted…

If not now, then when~!

Having been a freelancer for over a decade now and must say I am quite comfortable working from home. Yes, there are days when I get the urge to escape…

Food & Our Grandmothers..

I must’ve been three when I first climbed onto a tiny stool and stood beside my aarthimma [that’s what I called my grandmother] flipping dosais on a hot tawa.

Skywatch friday…. Chennai skies..

This was what greeted me- One of those evenings when I was out just to get away from home…. One of those days when I needed nothing but silence and…

Mountain Goat Farms, Mangaon

Quirky art work near the dining/games area… A game of carrom… look at the view ahead… Phew.. The Dining/games area… Yellow submarine! The space.. The Room We had 3 days…

Battle with the body – XVIII- The People…

“Surround yourself with people who make you happy. People who make you laugh, who help you when you’re in need. People who genuinely care. They are the ones worth keeping…

FOMO, YOLO and all that jazz..

How times have changed…Today we have acronyms and new age lingo for pretty much everything, and I need either a friend or Google to explain the word to me.

Day 2 in Kolkata

After a fun Day 1, I got a good nights sleep and was up and ready to explore more of this beautiful city…Was up by 6am, spent a few minutes…

Day 1 in Kolkata

After a good night’s rest, I woke up to a new kinda sound, which I heard within a few minutes again…Putting it out of my mind, I got ready for…

Birds of Sundarbans

We were in the boat cruising along the waters, keeping an eye out for any movement, any bird or animal that might be about..Our Guide Nityananda was up and about…

Malayalam movie & Palmgrove meals

Poster… [Image: Movie Facebook page] Look at the location..ufff… [Image: Movie Facebook page] The Tagore NDFC Hall inside the Music College, MRC Nagar The Tagore NDFC Hall It was one…

Photo journey through the Sunderbans

It has been a few days since I got back from my Kol trip.. About time I started sharing my stories, right? Someone recently asked me which has been my…

Wrapping up

Well, there goes another year, leaving us wondering what lies ahead.. Am sure the world and their gramma has this thought on their mind. For me, this year has been…

[TV Recipe] Creamy mushroom with no cream..

There I was, surfing through channels to see if there was anything interesting on TV when I landed on Living Foodz. I waited a second to see the orange screen…

Gossip Fusion Bistro, Chennai

The dessert counter near the entrance all decorated… Season’s Special menu Assortment of freshly baked bread… plain, spicy & herbed Broccoli & Pumpkin Soup with a pickled pear hidden underneath…

Battle with the body – XVII — Not just humans..

[Image: https://thecuriousbrain.com] Every time I see one of those dogs on a treadmill video, I wonder if the dog is made to run/workout or if it is on the machine…

Kovilakam Resort, Allepey

This weekend was one of a kind alright, and something I haven’t done ever… What was special about it? Well, two of my friends were getting married, to different women…

The skies and the captures…

I have always loved taking photographs of the skies, the clouds and just about anything that catches my eye.. Not so much people, cos I somehow feel am intruding/invading their…

Birthday Roadtrip- Bombay to Goa…

While I have travelled quite a bit, most of the trips have been on a train, bus or flight, and then short distances via road, in an Innova or a…

Love for writing…

Ikea pencils… Postcards... Stickers and stencils.. Bookmarks Stationery… Anand Prakash goodie box.. Something magical about putting pen to paper and writing out words to a friend/loved one… The earliest memory…

This Is Why Candid Wedding Photography Is So Famous!

They way weddings are carried out has changed over time. We all know that a wedding is a once in a lifetime experience and people want to remember that special…

New Trend Setting Wedding Venues

It is always beautiful when you hear stories of two people finding each other and deciding to spend their life together as a couple. Be it love or arranged, either…

Delhi, PVR and travel tales

It was April, the air was hot and there was crazy amount of pollution as I made my way from the Airport to Ambiance Mall, Gurugram… I had a few…

Battle with the body – XVI — Compliments and reactions…

Incident 1 You are waiting for your friends, walking up & down the mall…. They message saying 5mins… And then you see them walking towards you, you proceed to walk…

Never a dull moment around friends..

When a group of friends meet up, there is talk about everything under the sun. Ranging from relationships [whether you are in one, yearning to be in one, or confused…

Learning the ropes of Salesforce..

She was at her desk, had been staring at the system for a few minutes with a blank look on her face. Her colleague stood next to her wondering what…

Where did basic etiquette and courtesies go?

[Image source- http://www.childfun.com/themes/people/manners/] I got off the cab & said “Thank you” to the cabbie before shutting the door…. My friend looks at me in wonder and exclaims- “what was…

Battle with the body – XVI — The Age..

We are all different.. This extends to physical, emotional and mental frameworks! The sooner we accept this the happier we will be.. I get that we are all in some…

Life within papers..

He was busy poring over some papers on the dining table. She called out to him couple of times, but no response. She went about ironing her clothes for the…

Up and away , into the future…

I know its been a while since I was here… Leave alone share a few thoughts and words..Well, what better day to make a start than right after a fun…

Women and Power.. go for it~!

I am constantly fascinated by the things we humans do, more so women. Especially how things have changed over the years. There are days when I sit and talk with…

Of Names, Numbers & Angels …

I have this habit, yes I call it a “habit” cos I do it quite often…. But it is not one of those I want to let go of or…

The joy of writing…

“How wonderful it is to be able to write someone a letter! To feel like conveying your thoughts to a person, to sit at your desk and pick up a…

Gift me any of these, wont you?!

As 2018 draws to an end, like everybody else, I too tend to spend a few minutes reflecting on the year that was. While it was awesome in the Travel…

In your shoes…

[Image: A fridge magnet at a friend’s house] For atleast 20years of my adult life, have had people tell me now and then how I was not in their shoes…

[Inclusive, exclusive…] Living life with a handicap….

Few weeks back I had attended an event that was all about inclusivity ( post-https://aartikrishnakumar.com/2018/09/inclusivity-and-everyday-ability.html).. that event in fact got me thinking- how accessible are most places for people with…

Keeping up with changing times or not …

Yesterday was Deepavali, the festival of lights, the day when people go bonkers over crackers and all that jazz… Yes… Yesterday was Deepavali, and at my maternal grandparents place after…

All about Inclusivity

Curious, I walk into the YMCA Swimming pool area around 7.30am, to see a whole bunch of people huddled in one side of the place.

English, is it? -I

Over the past few weeks, I have had interactions with people[most of who were guys] and many points during the conversation, I was left puzzled..

Battle with the body – XV – Unsolicited advice..

A person I knew from donkey’s years ago _ “Hi, You should wear full sleeves, it will thin you down” A friend’s aunt in the elevator – ” hi beta…

This Monday.. learn to be attached detached…

Battle with the body – XIV – Conditioning of the mind!

Few weeks back, a post by a lady I follow caught my eye and had my attention as well. It is something that I have been talking about on the…

This Monday…. Acceptance

[Image source: http://getzkick.com/how-to-stop-dreaming-of-perfection-and-learn-to-accept-yourself/]

[Share] 17 F*cks you should finally stop giving…

I recently read this book called The Subtle Art of Not giving a F*ck by Mark Manson and it was a brilliant read… It covered various aspects that I have…

Movie goers ..

Do you love movies? Watching them in the cinema hall, on the big screen or would you rather watch it at home on your TV/ laptop [streaming it online] ?

This Monday… persist

Battle with the body – XIII

So, couple of days back while sitting at a coffee shop, I observed two people talking in the table nearby. There was quite a bit of animated head nodding and…

Battle with the body – XII getting published!

If you have been following my posts on “Body Shaming“, you will know that I have grown up facing the wrath of many, smirks of too many to remember and…

This monday, step out of your comfort zone..

This Monday.. Love yourself above all

Battle with the body- XI

So, I was away for a good two weeks enjoying myself.. This was a sort of Birthday gift to myself, I had planned this trip June – July and was…

This Monday.. Keep learning..

Solo travel.. my take!

As most people know, I love travelling on my own and it so happens that most of my travels have been solo travel. I had done an earlier post about…

This Monday.. Stop caring..

Let the conversation flow…

Sometimes you meet someone, and conversation just flows nonstop, and seamlessly. You are amazed at the end of the meet and smiling away. And then there are some when you…

Battle with the body- X

Right from my childhood days, I have noticed that kids were/are the cruelest. No, I am not saying kids are evil or any such unforgivable thing… Am referring to how…

This monday… Love yourself first…

This Monday… the walls

Saying NO and standing your ground…

The urge to say No is like that itch that won’t go away, we know it exists but we are unable to reach it to scratch it away.

This monday.. stand alone, stand tall..

This Monday… live for yourself…

The high horse

In life we come across people of all kinds, shapes, sizes and personalities. While I couldn’t care about their appearances, it is their personality that leaves an impact.

Growing old and other such fun things

No, this has nothing to do with a big birthday that is coming up few months down the road. It is more about dealing with people and age and other…

This Monday… make a difference…

Battle with the body – IX

1) Few weeks ago, while on Twitter, I stumbled upon an article that led to some snooping around till i finally found the profile connected to it..

This Monday… Be Thankful

This Monday… just remember this…

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 1 picture of yourself

Well, its that time again, the challenge has come to an end and it is time for the last task.. It says share a picture of yourself, well, the poster…

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 2 Songs

I love Music, I need Music all the time, be it when am working, cleaning, reading a book or just about anything. It helps me stay grounded, helps me stay…

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 3 Films

Am a movie buff alright, infant there are quite a few times I go for movies on my own. Dig into a bowl of popcorn and enjoy the flick.

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 4 Books

How true is this quote? I love reading and there are times when you will find me lost in not one but two books at the same time..

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 5 Foods

Am not too fussy when it comes to food, but yes I do have certain things that I prefer over others. 1. If there is one thing that I have…

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 6 places

Ah, how I wish I could take a world map, put a pin across all the countries/places I would love to explore and be done with it.. 😀 1.

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 7 wants

[image courtesy: Jakovlev`s Journal] Hmmm.. ummm… errr.. Been staring at this box for about an hour wondering what my 7 wants could be. I don’t really want anything, but then…

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 8 Fears

Am one of those who knows she has certain fears, but tries to overcome them, or convert them into strengths.. Here are mine… 8 Fears 1.

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge : 9 Loves

9 Loves Onward we go… the 2nd day is dedicated to sharing 9 Loves… Love is probably one word that is over used, under appreciated and well, it also at…

10 Day ‘You’ Challenge: 10 Secrets

This was a Challenge I spotted on Mayuri’s blog and thought it looked interesting.. The first one is 10 Secrets.. Arghhh, why does it have to be so tough.

This Monday.. love yourself first

[image source: Power of Positivity]

Living next to schools

[Image courtesy: Google] For as long as I can remember, we have always lived closed to a school, either across the road from one or right next door to one.

Battle with the body – VIII

Sorry, it has been a while since I wrote the next post in this series… Just been busy with life- aka no internet or mobile connectivity..

This Monday.. take charge

Time and Friendships..

Time changes a lot of things, it changes how we look, how we think and even how we process information. Heck, it changes what we want/desire as well.

Battle with the body – VII

So am on a holiday in a different city now. A city that has a reputation of being ultra cool and the place to be in if you wanna have…

Battle with the body – VI

Imagine the worst thing you have gone through in life and then in the same breathe read this… A girl [of about 16 yrs of age] is walking on the…

Dear Diary… mind wanders

Hey There, Yes, I do agree.. Am sorry for abandoning you for so long. But well, in my defence I was busy living it up.

This Monday.. Jump into the deep end

In touch..

I grew up in Madurai and Tirunelveli before landing in Chennai, so my growing years were quite different.. heck, we dint have a phone at home till I was in…

No means No.. always!

Well, for those who have seen the movie Pink, you will identify the title of the post and the image above.. as for others, am glad you haven seen the…

This Monday.. Focus

The drama around emergency contraception….

About a fortnight ago, a friend [someone I have met a couple of times] messaged me in the morning asking if I could get a “morning after” pill.

Battle with the body – V

Everyday is a new day, and every new day brings with it few interesting experiences… Right? Well, what can I say.. This post is gonna be a bit of a…

Battle with the body – IV

From the minute you wake up in the morning till you call it a night, there are people telling you what to do, what to eat, what to wear, what…

Battle with the body – III

Well, I have received quite a few emails on this topic. Quite surprised, but am glad I have been able to give them all a platform to share on.

This Monday.. have some ME Time..

Battle with the body – II

It has been a few days since I started this series on Body Shaming, and I got an email last evening from a person[What a surprise, I dint think anyone…

Battle with the body – I

Scene 1 A little girl is tugging at her mom’s saree and points to a GIRL afar. The mother also looks, they share a chuckle, nudge the others in their…

This Monday.. Live for yourself..

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The Starbucks Test and Home..

So, yesterday while I was browsing the net looking for some fun videos I came upon this one featuring Sq feet Subbu. Yes, right! The name had me pausing and…

Art of Fitting in..

“Why are you trying so hard to fit in when you were born to stand out?” ― Ian Wallace Other person: “Why are you like this, why aren’t you like…

Friendships and expiry dates -1

If someone had told me that friendships came with an expiry date, I would have howled with laughter. Heck, I might have given them a piece of my mind even.

The Spaniard, the promise of love and the scam..

I shut the app and moved on, only to hear a ting within few minutes. I opened Tinder to see a message from the Spaniard.

G for gratification? -Part II

Disclaimer: Reader discretion advised… Few months ago I had done a post on how most people who are online [be it on Social networking sites or on dating apps] were…

Dear Diary, need some ME Time

Dear Diary, Well, if you know me by now you know what is happening in life… I am at that stage I was a few years ago, where all i…

This monday.. take a leap..

I want to take my blog to the next level

I was tagged by Reema (hyperlinked to write this post. For someone who takes life one step at a time, am now hop skip jumping down them steps two at…

This monday.. Live your life your way!

LED light Puzzle…

A friend who had recently gone on a holiday to Hong Kong got back and asked if we could catch up & that he had something for me..

The Tall and Short of it..

“Woah, so how tall are you?” is a question am quite used to these days.. Earlier it used to have me stumped, but now I just reply “5ft 10”..

This Monday.. Be you

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This Monday.. Don’t care about others..

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[Share] Live it up.. advice from an 80yr old man…

East Africa DestinationLike Page October 24, 2015 · ‪#‎LifeLessons‬ Advice from an 80 year old man. 1. Have a firm handshake. 2. Look people in the eye. 3.

Dear Diary, memories linger

Dear Diary I know, I know, this year too is drawing to an end and today is the last day… Gosh, where did the time go?

This Monday.. stay positive!!

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going…Chennai floods -III

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going…Chennai floods -I When the going gets tough, the tough gets going…Chennai floods -II As mentioned in both these posts, I relied…

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going…Chennai floods -II

I did what I knew best.. took to the online world, which is where I got all information from and where requests/updated flowed faster than the #Chennairains..

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going…Chennai floods -I

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going… Well this is a song I love and true to the lyrics, I saw the city of Chennai come together during…

10 Things You Should Know About Dating The Woman Who’s ‘Forever Alone’ [http://elitedaily.com]

I came upon this article on http://elitedaily.com and found it to be bang on.. Sharing it here- Certain women always have people by their sides, whether they’re boyfriends, friends with…

Dear Diary, we move on, right?

Dear Diary Am back… I know its been a while, just that I have been busy.. With what, you ask? Well, life ofcourse!! It is November already and am once…

This Monday.. remember to live life fully

This monday… persist!!

G for gratification? -Part I

There are moments in life that leave you stumped- it could be good /bad/ ugly or just weird things… Off late I have been coming across people who seem to…

Another Birthday went by…

The minute the new year is born, the first thing I look in the Calendar is “What day is my Birthday”.. Little pleasures of life, right?

This Monday- get over the challenges

This Monday… Be nice!

Aham Bhumika – Making a difference..

About two months ago, I came upon this post on Aham Bhumika’s Facebook page, where they were looking for someone to contribute about Rs3500 to buy shoes for about 30…

This monday… new paths ahead…

Dear Diary, mind in a puddle

So, lots of things have happened since the time I spoke to you… I can sense a change in me, as a person, as an individual..

S for Single

If there are two things that are found all around us it is “Free advice” and “questions”. And both these shall be imparted without an ounce of consideration or thought…

Turmeric Blooms at Home

Few weeks ago one evening when I wandered towards the backyard, I noticed pretty flower in the Tulasi pot.. Called gramma who clarified that it was Turmeric flower… Am hoping…

This Monday… Forge ahead

Dear Diary, I miss Me

Dear Diary, It has been 4 months since I moved back to my grandparents place.. It has been 4 months since grandpa passed away It has been 4 long months…

This Monday… Start somewhere

Dear Diary.. time does fly by

Dear Diary, Am back.. It has been awhile but feels like I was writing in you only yesterday. Two whole months have gone by and we have survived the days…

This monday… stay confident..

This monday… keep trying!

This Monday.. take care of yourself

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Dear Diary – Making the move

Dear Diary, Am back.. And this time I just want to talk about this decision I have taken. You know how there are some decisions that come easy and then…

Death and moving on

Dear Diary Everytime I open a new page, my mind is in a muddle. I am going through something big, something drastic and it has me thinking..

Adieu to 2014 and Hola to 2015

I love Dec 31st, the New Year’s Eve…..Here are my 8 reasons why [buhahaha why should it always be 5 or 10 or 15…] 1.

Quick wrap up!

Dear Diary, How have you been? I know I haven’t written in you in a while.. As I say silence means good news! So things have been going good, have…

This monday…. Speak wisely

Collegedunia.com- pick your college with ease

You are in the 12th standard and there is talk about which college to apply to, where to go, what course to do but you are lost and confused.

Lessons learned from Living alone..

I went from living with my parents, gramma and great grandma to living with my grandparents and now I live on my own.. Alone! Here are a few little lessons…

People…

All those who know me, know that I love observing and watching people around me. It does not have to be people I know, it can be just about anybody..

Dedicated to all the girls out there…

A forward I received, worthy of sharing… 1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME she’s of marriageable age, ask her what her views…

To Judge or not be judged…

I don’t get it!!! I turn left, I turn right, I am constantly being stared at.. Why? I say something, I do something, I am being judged.. Why?

This Monday.. believe in yourself

Zoutons.com- online shopping was never this fun!!

Gone are the days when people spent hours in stores, going through rows and rows of products before making a purchase. Heck, I can’t remember the last time I did…

A milestone…

It is July 2014 and that means it has been a year since I moved out. Wow, I never thought this far when I took the decision to move to…

This Monday… Keep hope!!

The other gender

I still remember the very 1st time I saw someone from the 3rd gender.. it was in the local train in Mumbai, they were a group of 4 and the…

This Monday.. laugh

This Monday.. Be the best

This Monday…. Move along

What is the difference..

The mother: This is my oldest daughter.. you must have met my 2nd one Stranger: Yes. So, what does this one do? The mother: She works out of the house.

The Fire

“I smell something weird” I announced. I know it, it smelt like wire burning. The others stared at me like I had lost my mind.

This Monday… Act Now!!

This Monday… be good..

This Monday… choose to be happy!

[sharing] How to Stop Overthinking Everything: 9 Simple Habits

I came across this piece on www.thebuddhistvision.com/how-to-stop-overthinking-everything-9-simple-habits/ and thought it deserved to be shared!! These are very points that I keep telling people around me to help them tide over…

This monday.. face the challenges head on

Bursting at the seams

You dont ask if I am busy You dont ask if I have other plans You just assume am gonna drop all I am doing/planned and come over You dont…

This Monday.. Take a “time out”

This Monday…take care

Sacrifice or Compromise!!

A friend recently remarried…. after being single independent woman for nearly 20years! She found this man, a decade older than her, and I dont know if it was instant love…

55 word story- Bonds

It was her birthday, she remembered! To wish or not? To call or just message? Questions running through her mind. Decision was made; she sent a wish and asked about…

This Monday.. move out

10 day blogging challenge – Day 10

And with today, the tag comes to an end. Cant believe 10 days are over already~! Hmm, the last one is “One confession”. Truth be told, I stared at this…

10 day blogging challenge – Day 9

Wow, what a bounty! They want me to share 2 smileys… Here goes- Am never a whiny cribby person, and no matter what goes on inside, you will always find…

Nobody

Suddenly out of the blue, I cooked up this verse in my head. Wanted to pen it down before I forgot, for I really liked it and connected with it.

10 day blogging challenge – Day 8

Am sure those who’ve been following my blog and this tag know more about me than they did in all the time I’ve known them.

10 day blogging challenge – Day 7

Love the fact the number of things decrease with each passing day!! I like whoever it is who came up with this tag.. Here is the 7th day’s tag- Four…

Revisiting words

It has been a while since I read/wrote poems, so when a friend pinged me asking if I had any on Love, I replied “yes, but have to dig em…

10 day blogging challenge – Day 6

Hmmm, there are things that have you thinking little more than usual. This is one such tag, everyday I have had to think think and pen down the post for…

This Monday.. Ignite the fire within

10 day blogging challenge – Day 5

One of my favorite songs from my childhood is the “10 green bottles hanging on the wall, if one green bottle was to accidentally fall, then 9 green bottles hanging…

10 day blogging challenge – Day 4

Phew, time sure flies. Today is the 1st day of the 3rd month of this new year- damn, where did Jan & Feb go? Sigh… Oh right, I am supposed…

10 day blogging challenge – Day 3

Oh this is a simple one, but then do I have eight items/things??? Jeez, that is one too many if you ask me!! Alright, let me give it a shot..

10 day blogging challenge – Day 2

Compared to today’s task yesterday’s was a piece of apple pie.. err, meant to say it was fairly easy!! Ok, let me give it a go and see if I…

10 day blogging challenge – Day 1

I am not a big fan of Tags and have managed to wiggle out of quite a few over the years. Today morning while reading a friend’s blog, I stumbled…

This Monday… thank you..

This Monday… be happy

The art of spending…

I am not against people who love to shop I am not against people who throw lavish parties I am not against people who bring in all comforts into their…

Dear Diary, welcome to 2014

Dear Diary I know I havent visited you in a while, am sorry about that.. I promise to try and visit you frequently here on.

This Monday.. hold the silence

This Monday.. Lead on

2013, the year that was

Luckily, I have been blessed with an amazing understanding set of friends who have been my rock, pillar and much more.. They are always there, to pat me on my…

This Monday.. Hidden dreams.

Food at the sound of the bell

Just back from a tiring 3 day trip to Jaipur and Ajmer, the last thing on my mind is to get into the kitchen and whip up some dinner for…

2013- The year that was

Well, yes I do know it is a cliched post that pretty much everyone is doing! I deliberated over it for a few days, started writing it on 30th Jan…

S for Six Months

Days flew by So did Months And now it has been 6 months since I moved out to live on my own! [err, for those who did not know about…

This Monday…make a new start..

[Image courtesy:https://www.facebook.com/motivationalquoteshub] For the 1st time, am actually dedicating this to a friend who is going through a tough phase..!! Here’s to new beginnings..

This Monday… Speak the truth

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This Monday…….. Set Goals.

Hope, Faith, love and much more…

If I were to pick one woman who has carved a niche for herself. If I were to talk about a woman who has grown multifold over the years if…

On this Teacher’s Day…

Our teachers taught us the alphabets They taught us rhymes They taught us cursive writing and then stories came alive But they forgot to teach us how to control what…

This Monday……… Break barriers

This Monday………….. be strong

S for Strangers..

This post is not about strangers strangers, it is about familiar faces who are strangers! No, I am not referring to friends who have become strangers, am talking about faces…

This Monday… dont judge

N for New Address

After years of yearning After months of searching After hours of deliberating I have finally done it. I now have a new address. I have moved And now can proudly…

This Monday………..LIVE

This Monday……….. choose wisely

This Monday……….. Stand out

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This year promises to bring about some big changes in my life. The 1st of which has been my moving to a place of my own.

This monday. believe in yourself

[Tag] My life in Six Words

Thanks Gayu for the tag, I must say I quite liked your 6 word memoir, esp the 2nd one on “Aspired to Inspire before I Expire” To sum up my…

Conversation with God

Here goes a conversation between a 5yr old and God 5yr old- Good morning God, please let me my mother let me go out and play.

This Monday… wait for it..

She

She ran around playing her mother had made sure she was never alone She was a good girl books, the village pup and her one friend were her world ….

This Monday.. Choose to Ignore

Teach them while young

In continuation with my CSAAM post, here is an image that every parent, adult should see to teach their young ones.. PS: If you have a story to share, please…

Tread gently… C for children

It is April and that means only one thing to me… it is time for #CSAAM.. What is that? Well, it refers to Child Sexual Abuse & Awareness.

This Monday.. Break the walls

This Monday… Break out

Yep, I completely agree with this poster. Only when you break away, only when you take a risk, only when you step outside your comfort zone will you really LIVE…

This Monday… Live life to the fullest

It is Sunday evening, but as many of you know am already looking forward to tomorrow.. yes, yes, I know it is Monday! Tomorrow I hope the day is packed…

Strange are the ways..

Got it as a mail fwd, so unsure of the source

This Monday………. Look beyond

Yes, I know. It is Monday. Even though I am saying it with a straight face, you cant see the smile in my eyes. That is how much I love…

Getting INKed

I have no clues how it all began, but all I remember is one day suddenly keen on getting INKed. And now it has been 4yrs since my 1st tattoo.

Serene Sunday…. Her space

“Are you sleeping? Oh ok, carry on, wont wake you up. It is nearly 8am, where you up late last night? too much work is it? why?”

Tender Tuesday… Innocence

It was a saturday, and we[me+friends] were at Edge design house for the CinC event. That evening we had done a tree walk in Kotturpuram [you can read about it…

This Monday………. Pick em wisely

I love Mondays- there I said it. Actually, those who know me, know this about me. Some are surprised, some curse me and some just envy me for feeling the…

Salty Saturday… a dash of love

You walk away Without a glance afar I stand waiting patiently frozen Empty stares and glares Passerby throw freely I sit tired and weary hopeful You come running excitement I…

55 word story- Privacy

She hid her face behind the veil; her hands trembling holding onto the lace edges. As he moved his hand towards her face, she cringed, making a sound like a…

This Monday… Look within

This Monday………. Surround yourself

Matters of the heart

Today is Valentine’s day, a day when am flooded with messages and mails. NO NO, none from guys lusting after me, but from portals and companies asking me if I…

This Monday……… focus

55 word story- Technology

“This GPS with voice navigation is very cool, I love it” he beamed. He had made this statement half a dozen times since they’d left home towards Ranganthittu.

55 word story- Sleep

She watched him, the morning sun sneaking in through the crack in the curtain. A single strand of hair on his forehead. Her fingers moved forward, freezing midair.

55 word story- Surrender

Staring into his eyes, she said “So, you really are going to get me what I asked for? Promise me you won’t forget?” He replied “I promise, cross my heart…

Meant to be

This is a chain love story as a part of CBC (Chennai Bloggers Club) chain story relay. In this we write a love story as this month is for love.

This monday…Dont give up!

This Monday..Never give up

“Never give up” in Chinese

This Monday.. Do not assume

55 word story- Carnage

So mom, I was wondering- can I not study history anymore?” Saul asked. “Honey, it is part of who we are. You need to learn that stuff” countered his mom.

Photo Post- 55er- Empty

The sun was blazing above and the bags were all gone. Damn, we were late by a few minutes and the market has shut already.

Get to the point please….

Everyday someone or the other is busy putting their foot in their mouth and the entire Online world is busy shunning them. There was Abhijeet Mukherjee call women ‘dainted painted”…

This Monday………. Shine bright

Hello 2013….

Adios 2012 Hola 2013

Yet another year has gone by, flown by, but then it dint really fly by. I sat back and watched the days fly, and the months roll out.

This Monday… Look at the actions

This Monday.. THINK

This Monday.. Find light

55 word story- Woo

Do you remember how i kept driving past your house on the rickety cycle, you looked at me through the curtains?” “How i used to come over on the pretext…

55 word story- Moon

Bright and round, like a ball of cheese White and foggy, like a glass of milkshake That is the moon, Up in the sky, shining in the night Fading away…

55 word story- Distance

“Moommmmmmmmmmmy….” He screamed “What is it, am right here, can’t you see?” she scowled “See what i did, i called and you came running” he beamed “Hmmm..

55 word story- Alcohol

Mister Bartender, i need a drink “What will it be? Umm, it comes in a tall blue colour bottle, and has a sweet colorless liquid in it that tastes heaven…

55 word story- Taste

“Do you think i can carry off this dress?” He said “It is kind of short, and bound to make you look pudgy, ” the voice countered “Really? He squeaked.

55 word story- Irony

“ADULTERY”- Yippee.. Oh wait, i get only 9 measely points Cmon, pick up the missing tiles already, i am going to play my turn.. watch out “MARRIAGE” – Gosh, i…

55 word story- Magic

Abraca dabra Swish swish swish “What are you doing Ro?” “Trump’s tail refuses to stand still, so am putting a spell to freeze it into place.

55 word story- Possession

“Give me back that book, right now” he yelled “Stop it, sit down, everyone is staring at us, cant you see?” his friend tried reasoning “Who cares, hand it over…

55 word story- Seduction

“What are you staring at, stop it i say” she reprimanded “Look into my eyes, keep looking, do you see it now? Do you?” He stared on “I shall not…

This Monday.. Create your road

This Monday… Stay tough!

This Monday… Start Living

This Monday….. Accept it

This Monday…… watch your words

Kagitha Sirpi Ramesh- Inspiration & perseverence

Wanted to share this interesting incident from last evening. I was heading back home, hopped into an auto in R A Puram and no sooner did the auto guy start…

This Monday………….Behave!

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MnC

I am not going to be talking about any big shot MNC {Multi National Corporation} in this post. Nor am i talking about Muslims n Christians..

This Monday…. take charge of your life

Volkswagen creates a buzz..again

So, today i woke up to hear Uncle telling gramma something about the paper. Picked it up [The Hindu] to see an entire cover advertising Volkswagen… Suddenly, felt a buzz…

This Monday. Pay attention…

This monday…. please yourself

This Monday… be yourself…

This monday… find the light

This Monday.. stay true to yourself…

This Monday.. remember the 5 W’s

An evening with a 6yr old

Last friday, i was invited by a friend to come attend the Varalakshmi Puja.. Am not too big on these functions, but i did go [am that kind of sweet…

This Monday… Remember

This Monday… Learn from mistakes

This Monday… Deal with it…

This Monday… Stay strong….

American Eagle Wedges- Sale

Hi Well, for the 1st time am putting up an Ad, a classified of sorts.. What happened was my uncle sent across these beautiful Wedges through my cousin for my…

Perceptions or Mindsets

There is this show on National Geographic called Taboo and every week they cover a unique issue/characteristic/habit/etc. I have seen episodes that discussed Sexual preferences Dealing with death Fat –…

This Monday…. Be patient…

This Monday……. Laugh a lot…..

This Monday.. Smarten up!

This Monday…. Hope on

Ikea Wooden Train Set

My friend returned from their holiday in Dubai and i had gone over to spend time with them and their son… After a few minutes of playing, my friend asked…

This Monday… Understand

Why do dogs leave the earth first

I read this on Facebook, and thought it was well worth sharing…. At my grandparents’ house, they’ve always had a dog- it could be a German Shepherd or a Boxer…

This Monday…. Beat the voice

Date with the sun….

When i think of Sun, i instantly start playing Baz Luhrmann’s Sunscreen’s song out loud.. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it.

This Monday…. Live it up

The web

Well, here is my entry for Indiblogger’s Internet is fun! with Vodafone .. I work,surf, hunt through Google I sing songs with singers I dance to the Aerobic videos I…

This Monday.. Think wise

There she is

I have this friend, a friend with no name. She has been with me for as long as i can remember, probably from when i 1st saw the world.

This monday… Move ahead…

Spaces.. boundaries

What does Space mean to you? I did go around asking a few people this question and here is what they said…. M: Shelf space, space on the table to…

This Monday… Enjoy life

The woman that she is

We were on Sardar Patel road heading towards adyar and onwards to LB road when suddenly we felt a jolt while waiting at the signal. Three head turned.

This Monday… Live on

This Monday.. Regret not..

Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can’t build on it; it’s only good for…

For all you Dog Lovers…

Prince Floppy…. 🙂 10 Things Your Dog Would Tell You 1. My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be painful: remember that…

This Monday… Move ahead

The Oracle Cards

Few years ago, when in Pondy, i met a friend V, and as we wandered the floors of Casablanca, she mentioned “Oracle Cards”- how they were very nice, each card…

This Monday… Go for it!

This Monday…realise your true potential

Lessons 2: Motivate yourself…

“A pearl is a beautiful thing that is produced by an injured life. It is the tear [that results] from the injury of the oyster.

This Monday……..Cherish those who matter

Lessons 1: Getting more from 24hours…

Five hundred twenty-five thousand Six hundred minutes, Five hundred twenty-five thousand Moments so dear. Five hundred twenty-five thousand Six hundred minutes How do you measure, measure a year?

This Monday…. understand

This monday…. be there

Happy Birthday Steve Jobs

Remembering you on your 57th Birthday….. Happy Birthday Steve Jobs!

This Monday…. Enjoy the day…

This Monday… RESPECT

Like Aretha Franklin sings… Just a little RESPECT…

Dont………

Don’t leave people wondering how they’re doing; tell them. Don’t think that people know how they’re doing: tell them. Don’t assume that your saying nothing means everything’s OK; tell them.

This Monday… Smile

Stop, take notice…

This is yet another forward, that i got via Facebook… It is so true, we move through life like a pizza through the oven, almost like a robot..

Adult Truths…

Saw this on Facebook and had to share… except for a few points that are relevant to these in USA, rest are howlarious!!

This monday.. Soar high….

If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging

Received this via email and it is definitely share worthy… If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging … Will Rogers! A great football coach once said,” Just because…

This monday… stop being taken for granted…

Floppy… Lost & found

Did you hear about Floppy’s (mis)adventures? asked my uncle.. My heart stopped for a minute and i wondered what he was talking about. I had been out of town for…

This monday….Stop & Start…

This Monday………. get up!!

The Joy of Quiet

I sat there reading an article by Pico Iyer on the Joy of Quiet and decided to pen a few words of my own… The joy of quiet is my…

This Monday… Love and Use…

Here’s wishing you all a Wonderful New Year!!!

This Monday…… stop judging…

This Monday…. Get ready to change!

Be a friend….

If you know someone who’s depressed please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation, depression just is, like the weather.

Move on…

I received this via email and well, it makes sense, so am sharing it!! A wise man once sat in the audience & cracked a joke. All laughed like crazy.

This monday … be Happy!

As the month winds down and the year draws to an end, lets reflect on what has happened, change what went wrong and work towards a better, more productive, happier…

This Monday…. Remember Life is short..

The Story of the Butterfly

Read this on the net somewhere and had to share it…. A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly…

This Monday…. Never be afraid….

Have decided to start a new tradition on my blog.. I have been sharing posters and quotes whenever i stumble upon them.. But from now on, shall do one every…

TiE lessons- Suresh Krishna, Sundaram Fasteners

1.Make the wise Choice of serving customers who will be unforgiving. They will eventually help you build great products and services, ergo grow. 2.In the history of TVS, there has…

This monday, learn to Let go…

Vipassana – Sound of silence!

It was the last day and we were finally allowed to talk! Yes, allowed to talk. My friend and I had just spent 10, waiting, it was almost 11 days…

Believe in yourself…

Wash it off..

I dint believe it when i read this in today’s paper!! Hand washing day- really? What next? Brush your teeth day? Sigh… The thoughts that were running through my head…

Calvin Does know it all…

Back it up

You work on the computer… You save on the computer…. You work on the computer… you save on a Floppy disk You work on the computer… you save on CD…

Remembering Steve Jobs

Steve Jobs is no more… The Apple chairman and former CEO who made personal computers, smartphones, tablets, and digital animation mass-market products passed away today.

Bookmarks handmade…

So, i was headed out to lunch with 2 Blogger gal pals- Uma and Pallavi [who was visiting from UK].. I decided a few minutes before leaving home to take…

Origami

The web defines it as Origami, the word originates from “ori” meaning “folding”, and “kami” meaning “paper”; kami. It is the traditional Japanese art of paper folding, which started in…

September Tag- Day 30- In Motion

Sigh… And so with this the Tag comes to end and so does the month of September… 9 months of 2011 are over and we just have 3 more left…

September Tag- Day 29- Purchased

Well, i am not much of a shopper, but there are a few things that i cant resist buying… One is books, other is anything with a butterfly on it……

September Tag- Day 28- Daily Routine

I open blogger to write the post and that is when it hits me that September is nearly over, just 2 days to go.. Sigh!!

September Tag- Day 27- After dark

Ooh, i like the sound of the theme for the day- After Dark… I wonder what i can post for this topic, my mind is running in so many different…

September Tag- Day 26- Something Old

Well, its been a crazy morning..Was to have packed and been away on a mini holiday, alas, Mister Murphy seems to have had other things in mind… The trip is…

September Tag- day 25- Sunflare

1st its Sunset, then it is Sunflare… But then, its fun everyday… There is something to look forward to, and something to dig around 😀 I kept wondering what a…

Firework- Katy perry

For some reason, i liked this song the minute i heard it… So, here i am sharing it!! Lyrics: Do you ever feel like a plastic bag, drifting through the…

September Tag- Day 24- A smile

A smile- this is the topic for the day… And i kept looking through the photographs i had taken for that one special picture, alas, no luck yet!!

September Tag- Day 23- Sunset

Looks like the person who created the tag ran out of topics… or decided to have some fun and jazz it up a bit! I wish they had put in…

A mother’s love- True Story!

I came upon this on Facebook and had to share it with my readers… This is a true story of Mother’s Sacrifice during the Japan Earthquake.

September Tag- Day 22- Trees

Sigh… the days seem to be going by too fast for my liking, wish there was a pause button!! Everyday when i get on to my blog to do the…

Dear My life…

September Tag- Day 21- Pretty Pattern

As i walk along the corridor of St Mary’s Church [Armenian Street, Chennai] I stare at the beautiful sculptures and paintings on the walls Some are of men and other…

September Tag- Day 20- what you read!

Books and i have such a strong bond, i doubt if ever there will be a day when i dont touch, read, enjoy one!In fact mom keeps harping on how…

September Tag- Day 19- Where you slept

Hmmm, Its been one hellova Monday… Not that am complaining, i love Mondays! Normally, its the day when all i do is a bit of work, lots of follow ups…

September Tag- Day 18- In My Bag

Its Sunday and so far the weekend has been nothing but Work… not that am complaining!! i did manage to sneak out for a bit of shopping at easy 2…

September Tag- Day 17- On the shelf

Wow, 18 days have gone by already in September… Damn, the day are flying by too fast for my liking…. Time to speed up, and do more in every coming…

September Tag- Day 16- What you ate!

Today was Friday… Rather Today is Friday…. and i wonder where the day went! its been a hectic few days, and today was no different..

Tarot Reading

I do believe in astrology and Tarot readings…. Infact a few years ago, i got an online Tarot reading done and some of the things she said had me speechless…..

September Tag- Day 15- My Shoes

I wonder who created this tag… No, not because its for 30days, but because most of the themes and topics are related to ME ME and ME!

September Tag- Day 14- Flowers

Photography is something i have been interested in from when i was a young girl.. Back then, granpa had a Poloroid camera at home and we would all go about…

September Tag- Day 13- From a Distance

There are times when you walk on the road, or could be anywhere and something afar catches our eye.. This has happened quite a few times to me, and it…

September Tag- Day12- Close-up

Well, its been 12 days and must say, the tag is fun… A friend commended me on the discipline, but i did have to correct him that i had gone…

September Tag- Day 11- Something Fun

“Something Fun”- just when i thought the tag was not challenging enough, it throws this curve ball at me, leaving me in the lurch! There is so much that happens…

September Tag- Day 10- Something you made

Last weekend when i was travelling, a friend called to wish me on my Birthday and then made a small request… Am glad she did, it has helped me get…

September Tag- Day 9- Faceless self portrait

Duh… The topic for today is Faceless self portrait… Its crazy trying to do a self portrait and now i have to take one where you dont see my face!!

September Tag- Day 8- Technology

I love Technology, but yes, i do know it has its flaws and drawbacks!! In this sense, technology is a lot like us humans- it has its ups and downs…

September Tag- Day 7- Something New

Ooh, now this is a topic that had me thinking- did i want to look at something new in my life, as in some new trait i had developed, or…

September Tag- Day 6- Childhood memory

The fondest memories have been of travel, maybe that was when i was bit by the Travel bug which had taken a sabbatical in between to resume with vigor… We…

September Tag- Day 5- Someone you love

This is probably the easiest topic of the lot so far… There is only one i love very dearly today, and now!! All those who know me might know who…

September Tag- Day 4- Favorite Colour

The one colour i love above all others is BLUE… For some reason, this colour draws me to it every single time.. Be it wall colour, in clothes, bags, watches…

September Tag- Day 3- Clouds

Ah, ever since i learnt how to click photographs, the one object that i love clicking are the CLOUDS… There have been days when all i did was sit in…

September Tag- Day2 – What you wore!

On most days, i am at home and so dont really bother too much about what i wear. But then, there are those days when i either have a meeting…

September Tag- Day 1- Self portrait

So, i have decided to do this photograph tag for the 30 days… perfect for September!! Here goes the 1st one… The topic is Self Portrait….

Photo Tag for September

30 Day Photo challenge 1. This is a thirty day challenge. Refrain using old pictures. 2. If you miss one day, compensate the next day. 3.

Live in the Present…

“We’re so busy watching out for what’s just ahead of us that we don’t take time to enjoy where we are.” Calvin & Hobbes

Enough is enough

No matter what the conversation is, it invariably steers towards the topic of “Marriage” No matter who they are talking about, it comes around to someone who is looking to…

Salvador Dali says…

Intelligence without ambition is a bird without wings. The secret of my influence has always been that it remained secret.

Ta da… The Samsung Galaxy Tab 750 Launch is here!!

Did you know? The Samsung Galaxy Tab 750 is going to be unveiled on August 10… Did you know? Indiblogger has rolled out this awesome contest where they have got…

Why, i wonder!

Why is it hard to remain silent; when words are battling within Why is it hard to not share; when thoughts are floating free within Why is it hard to…

Rules of life… really?

It is nearly 2am and am still awake… Sleep eludes me as thoughts fill my mind.. I am randomly surfing the net… hey,wait, this looks interesting……… But rules?? Really? Hmmm….

Take a Chill pill

There are not too many things that irk me.. but yes, there are a few that bug me to no end…. Here are a few,- Coffee shop Screeches I have…

Oopsy Daisy

Day: Sunday, july 17th Occasion: Yet another 1st time experience On 16th july night, called mom and told her about going for a movie on Sunday, 17th july at 3.45……

Make an impression

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Maya Angelou

Age with grace

Age is just a number- I agree to this statement whole heartedly, but i also believe you need to accept your age and help your body cope with the changes……

Flying

Read this on the net and wanted to share… Once upon a time there was a little boy who was raised in an orphanage. The little boy had always wished…

The Horse & The Pig

Posted by a friend on Facebook.. There was a farmer who collected horses; he only needed one more breed to complete his collection. One day he found out that his…

Gone in a flash

Its going to be 24hours and am still reeling from the incidents of yesterday…. Why? Well, lets just say its a day i dont want to ever go through again……

What is

What is wrong if i speak my mind What is wrong if i share my thoughts What is wrong if i leave a room when there are guests and awkward…

Change is easy… Indeed!!

When i read about Indiblogger’s Change is easy contest, i knew i had to participate.. The contest was by Dell Inspiron… Alas, time just flew and i was running out…

The pencil

A fascinating video that shows how Pencils are made….

Mornings

There are days I wake up feeling awesome , am excited for no reason and the day goes off on a high.. Things go well and am happy through the…

All around

I’ve suddenly been bitten by the ‘ I Want to write, I Want to rant, I want to blog’ bug!! And so have decided to make the most of it……

I struggle 2

What started off as a single post, is now stretching to 2.. I Struggle -1 I struggle to say No to say ” Go to hell, i aint gonna do…

I struggle- 1

… to accept compliments with a smile and Thank you …. to express how i feel with people … to put words to my feelings/thoughts … to control my temper…

Days….

Over the last few days, I am on my laptop working and every few minutes i open blogger to do a post and within few mins, all I accomplish is…

The Ant Fable.. or maybe not…

This was an email forward that had me amused and thinking.. So, decided to share it on my blog… The Ant Fable.. or maybe not… Every day, a small ant…

The Jinx

It is almost like April is not my month… Travels- all plans fell flat- Even a trip to Blore seems to not happen!! Technology- almost all the gizmos i use…

The 3 friends

Location: Besant nagar beach to Karaikudi… Partners in Crime- Moi, Gils and Vidya Agenda: None!! We met, we chatted, we walked, we laughed, we enjoyed the gentle rain, and we…

Speak up!

Years ago, when we were living in a smaller town, one day on my way back from school, I spotted Latha [ who was our maid Pattamma’s daughter] sitting near…

The 7 things that make me—> me…

Gils said he had an award waiting for me on his blog… So, i rushed to his blog to see what the award was all about….

Just because

Just because you are an orphan Does not mean your miserable Just because you have a big family Does not mean you are loved Just because you have friends Does…

C for Click

I can so relate to this toon. I too like Pig love photography, and enjoy capturing moments, sights and things that catch my eye and that which i find interesting.

D for Depart

If there is one situation where i am lost for words its at the time of Departure… Could be a cousin/uncle/friend flying off to a far away land or when…

L for Love

There are so many different kinds of love, i am not even going to get into that… Wanted to write about something that moved me today, something i saw, something…

Attitude…

Came upon this note on Facebook, and thought i shall share it on my blog, so many who read it can learn and alter their lives… I’ve realised early on…

R for Rip-off

I open Blogger, and the new post box, stare at it for a while, until suddenly a topic/word pops into my head and voila, i have my post and some…

P for People- Part I

In life, we meet so many different kinds of people.. Some leave an impression, while others simply pass by without any after taste… The three places where i found inspiration…

Q for Quick

How quick we are to judge a person based on their looks/clothes they wear/the way they talk/vehicle they drive How quick we are to jump to conclusions without hearing what…

Peek a boo

Dear Days Flying by, Wonder why you are passing by so fast. Why dont you stop and catch your breath?! I would so love to cherish a few moments here…

Stark Contrasts

The past few weeks, i’ve been meeting friends morning noon and evening… College friends, Ex colleagues, and friends i know via Social networking websites.. Each one has a story to…

Why do….

Why do people need no reason to give advice but rarely take the same? Why do people keep talking and barely listen? Who do people assume things and rarely wait…

Fishes and Fun

Felt like we were on a treasure hunt, no clues or no directions either.. We kept walking up and down the aisles, crowded with people, and noise filling our ears…

People

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.

Tweet tweet…

I’ve always embraced new technology, which is probably why after an initial phase of silence, i took to twitter like a fish takes to water… over the past few months…

what is..

What is it about families that has us going “Oh no, not again?’ What is it about calls from certain friends that make us go “Awww, couldnt we keep talking….”

Books Books and more Books

Saw this tag on Monika’s blog, got tempted Saw this tag on Prateek’s blog and knew i had to do it…. And today, Vishesh has tagged me on his post……

The ink flows…

There was a time when i wondered “What will i do now that i have quit my crazy job.. Especially since we dint have fixed work timings, and i worked…

By the water cooler…. Sly me!

Parul from Brining up Adi is all set to launch her second book ” By the water cooler” . If you read her first book– ”Bringing up Vasu” you will…

Live and Tweeting

Last wednesday evening i remember catching up with Sandeep at the Subway F4 meet and talking about weekend agenda… Thursday was spent getting a new battery for my laptop, which…

Always a 1st time

Today was yet another 1st! I attended an event as a Live Tweeter!! Yep, that is the power of social media for you.. TEDx is happening in Chennai tomorrow at…

Words fail me

Yes, it does happen to me!! There is just one circumstance, situation where i am left speechless and have no clues what to say….. and this leaves me feeling helpless..Not…

[Thursday Challenge] Wired

Saw this concept –Thursday Challenges last week on Uma‘s blog, but since i was travelling did not have time to put up a post.. Today, thought why not, lets participate…

The yellow smiley

Mom: how do you get that yellow colour smiley face? I: Cos i put a “:” and then a ” )” Mom: i did the same thing, but dint get…

No Onions, No Garlic… Thank you!!

What was/is the fuss all about? I kept wondering! Everytime there was/is a menu being planned or when someone mentions eating out or taking away, there was/is a hoo haaa…

Ode to Friends…

I know a lot of people Some i’ve met multiple times Some i’ve never seen and yet we are close but it is those select few who i call FRIENDS……

Vinayaka Chathurthi is here…

We chant this prayer , receive blessings and then begin any new task- it could be going to school, starting work, a new home, birthday, and just about everything else…

Flash backs..Deja vu.[s]

Last evening Lakshmi called to tell me about a song she heard as she walked into a restaurant… and we knew that the same thing/instance/person was running in both our…

Bring out the butter

Its time for some celebrations once again.. Today is Lord Krishna’s Birthday– we call it Krishna Jayanthi/Gokulashtami, while some others Janmashtami.. Lord Sri Krishna was born on the ‘Rohini‘ nakshatram…

The white cat

The white cat sneaked into our home through the window in my room I watched him dash by Ran to chase him out Shoo shoo, i followed him into the…

Art in a square

If someone were to point to me and say ‘she is quite creative, good in art & craft”, i might have rolled on the floor laughing..

Wassup!!

Everytime i hear the words “Wassup” am tempted to say “the fan, the ceiling, my chimes, few mosquitoes randomly stuck upside down”..[and mind you, i have said one of these…

Whooosh

Wow, before you know it, the days are flying by and its not been 1,2,or 3,but 7 whole months that have gone by.. 2010 seems to be slipping through my…

Just for fun!!

A post that i spent least amount of time on. A post that was a lot of fun A post that i think i’ve done before on Ryze on Caferati-…

Gender bender

Mayuri and Gils tagged me- “My Sins against Gender-Stereotypes”… All I am supposed to do is reveal all those things I am/have done in my life, which as a girl…

Day 30 – Mish Mash Meetup

A few ago , i got a DM from @soravjain inviting me to be a part of the June 30th -Social Media Day- Mashable Meetup happening in Chennai!!

Day 29 – Means to me

New definitions of abbr that i discovered from people around me… quite interesting i must say!! 🙂 LOL – no, its not laughing out loud around here….

Day 28 – I love to singa

For some strange reason, since morning i’ve been playing this tune – I love to Singa in my head and just cant get the owl outta my head!!

Day 27 – Cha Bar or Chai shower?

At pizza hut V: post lunch, lets go to Cha bar in Oxford bookstore, i simply love their chai Me: oh yes, sure thing! After a while,as we were done…

Day 26 – Drained

Am tired of praying Am tired of hoping but I know I need to keep praying I need to hold on to hope!! Life keeps throwing pain keeps hurling blows…

Day 25 – Colours of Life

Was randomly browsing the net when i stumbled upon this website… Upon spending a few minutes i hit on a page that spoke about Colours and personalities… RED It shows…

Day 24 – [Skywatch Friday] Lights

People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light…

Day 23- Chitty Chaty Bang Boing

A lady battling with a crying child… who just wont stop crying… and her hubby is busy bonding with some classmate he bumped into on the train 2 guys travelling…

Day 22 – One slipper flew over the wall

Had gone half way across town to meet a friend, and while there, buzzed another who lived hoip skip jump away! He came pickd me up and we went to…

Day 21 – Friends

A person we know for 2days – a friend? A person we’ve known for over 1 week- a friend? A person we’ve known for over 1 month – a friend?

Day 20 – Soaps and Life

There was once a time when i used to enjoy watching TV and the various Sitcoms – esp on Star World- Everybody Loves Raymond Seinfeld Whose line is it anyway…

Day 19 – Read your Mind

Completing each other sentences is one thing, but to say the exact same thing running in one’s mind is Wow! Over the years, i’ve noticed/come across people with whom i…

Day 18 – Sojourn

Well, as i wrote the 16th post, i thought to myself – How am i going to manage the next few days? I am going to be travelling… What do…

Day 17 – Life

Whenever someone asks me – “How is it that you are so chilled out all the time?”… This picture is what comes to my mind..

Day 16- Celebration

Its amazing… mind boggling actually!! The day i decided to join Prats, Monika and Neha on this NaBloPoMo adventure, i wondered “will i be able to do it, and will…

Day 15 – Unwrap

Decided to have some fun and what better than with words!! So, here goes, lets see who gets em right!! and no, google wont help ya…[i thought of these all…

Day 14- Gift of words

Few years ago, when i was in Pondy for a weekend, i was at my friend V’s house .. On her table i saw this calendar sitting pretty- white shaded…

Day 13 – Circle of life

One of those days when the TV was free… As i surfed through the channels, i stopped at Discovery as the sight of Grizzly bears caught my eye!!

Day 12 – Long time…

Does it happen only to me or others i wonder!!! I hear my name called out at random places, only to find the person to be my ex-colleague, school/college mate…

Day 11 – Only for today

Came across this interesting post on fellow blogger Bohemian Rhapsody‘s page!! Decided to take the post and tweak it a bit… [It is Via The Happiness Project] The original post…

Day 10 – Behave

The other day when i was in Landmark,browsing.. yes, i browse, and i fight hard to not buy any books.. No space at home… No room to make space either!!

Day 9 – Together

It has been a long day, so for a change am gonna do no talking and let the picture do all the talking!! 🙂 participating in my 1st Wordless Wednesday……

Day 8- Keys

“Dont let others tell you what to do or how to live your life…. ” is a statement i hear and utter quite often.. “Walk in my shoes and only…

Day 7 – B for…

“Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee”. Mohammed Ali Few years ago, one day, as i was walking on the road, i watched a butterfly fly from one flower…

Day 6 – If i were……………….

Am really beginning to enjoy NaBloPoMo’s blog daily concept!! And so far, i’ve managed to find things i want to write about.. lets see how the rest of the day…

Day 5 – Do you mind?

Today, i was at the Ilayaraja’s Nothing But Wind concert with some friends and mom.. There were these 2guiys sitting in the seats right behind us who dint SHUT up…

Day 4 – Time to fly

In another 8days, a little birdie will fly off the nest and learn to fly on its own… Am talking about my Sister, who’s off to join her 1st job…

Day 3 – Free

“Freedom is not something that anybody can be given; Freedom is something that people take and people are as free as they want to be.”

Day 2 – The girl

A poem i wrote 5 yrs ago still remains in my head… The words so vivid and clear, so i decided to pick my own poem as MY current favorite…

Day 1- Dreams…

The day i was gifted my very 1st Enid blyton, i knew what i wanted to be when i grew up!! I wanted to live in a big house, surrounded…

The Prince, the Birthday Boy and AC!!

It was Sunday, and time for Prince of Persia- Sands of Time! {my review will come up before end of day] at Woodlands theater,Royapetta! A theater i was visiting after…

Fwd Blackberry Commandments

Received a interesting mail fwd today from a dear friend and thought i must share it with all my readers and fellow BBbuds!! 🙂 Applies to all blackberry lovers/users. 1.

Ties and Bonds

Gone are the days when all we relied on was the worn out blue paper that brought notes from our loved ones. Today we have the telephone – the landline…

Spades

Am not talking about a game of cards, or the different classifications in the cards; or for that matter, a spade used in the garden!

Read or not

What gets you to read a blog?online surveys

No Can Do

Am sitting here wondering how to say NO to people who keep asking me for favors ,while i find the men around me slapping a NO left right and center!!

You Win!!!

The new year is here and it came with a bang, atleast in the Blogworld!!! Anu has gifted me this lovely award… So, keeping up with the tradition, here i…

Forget me not

I have a photographic memory... No, i am not refering to the phrase about -“All of us have photographic memory, some just dont have film in it!!!”

Wired..

Whats happening in your life ? – Will email you You switched jobs and dint tell m? – Duh, Dont you get Linkedin updates? Where did you travel to ?

The Tweetters met and Lions Roared

The Saturday dawned much against what i had planned.. Woke up feeling awful. cold and head felt like a tonne.. Just dint have the energy to do anything, but knew…

Hold on..

The swish of the wind bellowing in my ears Taking me back,to days flown by. Memories flooding my thoughts Alternating- happy and sad, I held on tight to today’s dreams…

Days roll by

Its been over a week since i landed in Blore, but this trip i know has been different from my earlier ones. Last evening as i was chatting with a…

[55er] Dream

Driving back home, my thoughts began to wander. “What if the guy and gal weren’t killed?” “What if the girl’s brother had set them free?”

That’s what friends are for…

Keep smilin’, keep shinin’ Knowin’ you can always count on me, oh, for sure ‘Cause I tell you that’s what friends are for For good times and for bad times…

Rebound

Is it that am back in Chennai after 2weeks being away? or that there is so much work that i am looking for ways of keeping myself going??

[55er] The Morning

She was still sleepy, struggled to open her eyes – am i dreaming? “I want to spend my lifetime …………………” Ah, there it is again, i know i heard it…

Path

The road ahead winding and long footsteps,and shadow are all i see coming along Where does it lead to am tempted to ask Adventure and excitement i put on the…

Rewind Please -II

There are some who bring out the twinkle in your eyes, and others who just light up our entire body [ok, now don’t ask me what that means, you need…

Rewind please- Fund raiser and memories!

Started this post on 2nd March 2009, and then it got lost in drafts… Anyways, decided to get going and share the incident that i remember vividly today, 12yrs later!!

The “8′ Tag

Was tagged by Rakesh longgggggg back, and finally got the nudge i needed and doing it… 🙂 Drumroll please…….. 8 TV shows I like to watch: 1.

Let me free…

I had earlier written this post for the Indusladies International Women’s Day Blog Contest Now am submitting it for the Violence Against Women blog…. Let me free… This is about…

55er…. Lost…

Twinkling stars lit up the night sky as we tried to figure out the constellations, only to give up in a few seconds. The waves came crashing, one right after…

Time stands still

on Dec 31st ’09.. It was doomsday at home… I woke up at 6.30 and as i sleepily got out of my room, an eerie silence greeted me..

Love

is in the air… Really?? well, dint see any love birds around..the only kind i saw were on the Small screen … so many movies….

55er…. Valentines day….

Since today was Valentines day, thought why not try a 55er… The phone rang. She stared at it, making sure it was for real. Grabbed it and ran to her…

He said, I said…

The pain started about 3weeks ago, initially,i shrugged it off assuming it was a sprain, but even after applying Iodex, Absorbine and what not, no respite… Went to the doc…

Do you mind?

Couple of days back, had gone to an uncle’s house.. I wanted to go say hi to another uncle, who was in his room, on the 1st floor..

So long..

S.RAMACHANDRAN, S/o G.S. Sreenivasa Iyer passed away on 7 Feb 2010. Mourned by Wife Gowri and Sons Rajesh and Shankar and Daughters-in-Law. Ph: 28342206, Cell: 9841029206. is all that remains….

ooh aah ouch!!

Looks like its a day of mishaps…something that hasnt happened to me in …ummm errrr long long time… and i just know it, can feel it… all the peepals who…

Lemons

Life gave me lemonade and I can’t imagine why Born on a sunny day, beneath a tangerine sky I live life without pretending…. is a song i love listening to…its…

Towering

Towering high majestic and grand decked in bright red with rings of light on your neck you came waltzing towards me fear, excitment and a rush ripping through me in…

Menu for 2010….

Yes, i know its been a while since i lurked about, no excuses, just that i was busy with that 4letter word that has us all in the maze… LIFE!!

Starfish….

Got this as a fwd from a friend today and just wanted to share with all of you!! simply beautiful … Read on…. A man was walking down the beach…

[Skywatch Friday] Reach for the heights

An empty tree looking up to the clouds…. Pillars of strength… For more beautiful skies, go to Skywatch Friday

i feel good..

Whoa-oa-oa! I feel good, I knew that I would, now I feel good, I knew that I would, now So good, so good, I got you Whoa!

Ode to 2009…

“You’re it… Cmon do it” the tag called out… So here i am… Taking the tag from Gils and G3 ‘s blogs… 🙂 [incidently, they are 2 new friends i’ve…

2010 is here…

Its here.. Its here…. The New Year has arrived… 2010 is what we’re gonna call it ~!! Whoa… Today’s the 3rd day of the new year… [wow, 2days gone by…

Time…

Wow, today is Dec 27th!! Wonder where the year went by… Last night as i sat in the bus,returning from a mini 2day trip [hush now, will write abt it…

[H] ear….

Me: Hi, Do you have any Goth music ? Salesman @leading bookstore- Karthik music madam? sure, they are right here in the tamil movies section Me: err, i meant Goth..

No Smile for You…

It takes all kinds of people to make the world go round..[remember this as you read on…. :-)] Today, i had to accompany gramma for her massage/treatment at Arya Vaidya…

Shooot….

Yesterday was quite the busy, and Missy Aarti [aka Me] had her hands full till 7pm or so… yep, she was a busy busy girl, working, finishing errands, attending a…

20..4..13..17..1…

This week has been interesting and different from my usual Monday and Tuesday!!! Why? well, cos i’ve been doing different things, exploring various hidden aspects of mine and learning/discovering new…

[55er] The Game

“Wanna try? I’ll teach you”, she offered “Sure, why not! But you better remember i’ve never done it before”, I countered “Hold on to this stick with your right hand…

Familia

“Sometimes you pick your friends, sometimes they pick you.” What is the definition of family???? someone who is your blood relative? mom, dad, uncles, aunts, grandparents, siblings, extended cousins….

[Recipe] Beetroot & Garlic meet..

ot into one of those moods.. felt like cooking something fun.. and all i came up with were 2 beetroots that had become spongy… 🙂 Pulled em out, chopped em…

Movie.. M.A.S.H and kitchen invasion…

Woke up excited knowing i was gonna be out the door by 8.30am… and it was Sunday~!! We[me , friend, n her son] went to watch A Christmas Carol in…

Karthigai Deepam

Imagine walking into a home and welcomed by a zillion lights and lamps? Wouldnt that be a sight for sore eyes? well, that is almost how beautiful my grandparents home…

Skywatch Friday – Skies speaketh

It never ceases to amaze me as to how within a blink of an eye , the skies create a fable…. The Sunset in Goa…..

Skywatch Friday -Party in the Sky

As i watched the evening sky light up change hues the only thing that came to my mind was “They were having a party up there”…..

Unleash

What CAPTION would you give for these pictures???? Let your creativity flow.. Cmon, dont be shy…..:-)

Switch off

There are times when i use the switch in my head, and then there are those other times when it goes unused, rusting away… Off late, i’ve realised i Switch…

K 5

Its not a new mountain that has been found … it is what has me addicted , hooked and giving me sleepless[well, almost] nights… Klueless 5, the latest from the…

Happy

After a long day… yet fulfiling one… here is all i have to say!! 🙂 “What’s the use of worrying? It never was worth while, So pack up your troubles…

275

Phew… after a lot of chugging, this is my 275th post in this blog!!! 🙂 Quite an achievement i must say… And am quite proud of myself too..[For being able…

Skywatch Friday .. Lights in the sky!!

Its been a while since i participated in Skywatch Friday, thought its about time i resumed it.. I love taking pictures of the skies, the clouds being my alltime favorite…

It was

one of those random moments where i was bored and took a blogthings quiz…. Must say the outcome is pretty interesting….. !! People Love That You’re Witty and Funny You’re…

Raindrops keep falling on my head…

The day after i left for my holiday, mom and friends msgd saying its POURING in Chennai.. All i could do was kick myself and say Damn, what timing!!

A cuppa

Its been 3days since i got back from my awesome holiday… and i know i’ve been meaning to sit and write about it, but time just seems to fly by…

Unwrap……..

I know, its been 2months since my B’day flew by but there is one gift which is is yet to be opened… Its from my dear friend Anita, who I’ve…

I did it… again

Today, while taking a break from work, was reading blogs [ what else can i do in the 10mins i call break :)].. Saw that Senor Gils had written a…

55er

Not a day goes by when I don’t think of you, alas, you’re far and gone now Wonder when I shall get another glimpse of you!

Puzzled?

One of those rare fwds that makes too much sense and fun to pass around… got it in my mailbox today from a friend… [she sent a zillion of them…

Shrink?

1—A friend:- Hey Aaarti, Listen.. do you have some time to spare today afternoon? something i wanna talk about……….. 2—Auto driver:-Madam, what to tell.. need to make Rs300 before end…

Turn on

As calvin rightly says.. one needs to be in the MOOD to do things… Work Play Go out shopping Do a task Work [ Pah, i know i said it…

Waste not…want not

Had gone to a friend’s wedding [ Met this wonderful guy through Apar and Archana].. MNA and i hit it off instantly and from there on we came buddies, who…

Within me

All of 18 she shoots questions day in and day out making me look within am i so bad? or is she just lost? Who would know, i wonder..

Coffee, Beer or Baileys?

2 posts, both to do with coffee in 2 days.. now, thats a 1st out here.. 🙂 Apar had been inviting me to the club at her office for a…

Brew?

Born into a family of coffee lovers, i am used to people saying “I want a cup of coffee ” at odd hours of the day or few minutes after…

Happy Diwali

Hope this festival of lights, brings you every joy and happiness. May the lamps of joy, illuminate your life and fill your days with the bright sparkles of peace, mirth…

Happiness follows

A fwd after agessssssssss.. Once there was an old alley cat walking down the street looking for his supper. As he walked along he came upon a beautiful young cat…

Stranger vs Friend!!

Do need to know someone before going on a trip with them? Absolutely not… Do you need to be comfortable around someone to spend time with them?

The hills beckon

Its that time again.. Am off on a Holiday, yoohooo!!! Gonna explore new terrain, taste new adventures and will be back with stories and pictures to make you all jealous..hahaha!!

Spicy Saturday!!

Yep, after ages, my post got picked for Blogadda’s Spicy Saturday Picks~!! ]That was a lovely surprise as i logged onto the comp last night around 11.45, few mins after…

Why did the chicken cross the road?

Aaargh!!! yep, darn right it is an irritating question…. simply cos it has no answer!! Have you ever wondered, Why People stand in groups of 4- a zillion right next…

Caught!!!

After long, caught in a tag.. this time by a new Blogger friend, Gils !!.. 1.Grab the book nearest to you, turn on page 18 and find line 4?

Bah!!

having One of those days.. very rare for me, but still its here!! Bugged Pissed offf No mood to work Dont feel like talking to nobody just want to disappear…

Live it up!!!

Ever since i read this quote, i fell in love with Erma Bombeck‘s words… did some digging, and read about her, her life, and all that she went thru… An…

7 days not enuf!!

Ever since my bday, its been one busy roller coaster couple of days!!! and last week was no exception… The one thing we were all looking fwd to was my…

Nature beckons!!!

Finally mnaged to upload some of the pics clicked on my Phone.. N95 8Gb!!!! Spencers III phase Atrium view…. Clouds sailing along the evening sky……… The Acropolis, looks like a…

Sylvia does not like Upma

No, that is not the title to my upcoming book!! Neither is it my new name!! 😀 Read on to know more… Last week i got the chance to visit…

Forward ahead…

Got this on email from a website and thot why not…. Lets give a few laughs to help you all have a fun Thursday!! 🙂 NUTS…………..

Tagged…Aaarghhhh

Today’s been a quiet day… not much of work,and the meeting i thought i had today has been postponed to Thursday!! Looks like God knew i need a break from…

Finally

Whooopee doo deee… I did it… Actually managed to survive it this long and make an announcement too!! Yipeee!! 🙂 I’m at my 250th post..How abt that!! Ha!!

Hello,

is this Aaarti? This is RJ Soundarya here, from Chennai Live 104.8! Me: [Gulp] yes, Hi Soundarya!! How are you doing? S: We got your sms[ i had sent a…

Arent you ashamed

of yourself? is what i wanted to ask.. if any of those people were in front of me, God Save them!!! Hmfph!! ok, here is what happened!!!

Dodge ball.. Tag!!

Got this tag from a friend… and now is the perfect time to do it… I have tonnes of work, and just don’t feel like doing any … sigh!!!

Dont push it

When we come across an idea or a thought, we have this urge to share with others.. but there are times, when we need to hold our tongue and not…

i won i won….

Yep.. i did!! nothing big.. nothing major!! But heck, i won dint i!!! What? You ask!! well, TOI [ Times of India for all you non paper reading dumbums..hehe] runs…

Alas… Hooked and Tagged !!

Alright, I have been presented this “award”. Being the good girl that i am, I hereby thank Vidya for this wonderful award I also want to thank my best friends…

Hop on the bandwagon or

do i continue remaining as cool as i’ve been??? i remain cool and happy!! Where is this coming from? well, blame it on the latest rage in town, or rather…

There was

a time when i was longing for friends and couldnt get enuf of them..”More the Merrier” was my motto!! But now, i’ve realised am happy with the ones i’ve got……

Relaxed State of mind….

Its been a week since i landed here, and my heart seems to be singing – “Lets just stay here”! 1st time ever, i feel this way!!

Raining love

Raining in Chennai? Nah, i aint talking about that!! This is a different kind of rain.. One that i have been blessed with thanks to the adorable sweet caring bunch…

Skywatch Friday – Sky shimmers!!!

in the morning As we walked along the streets filled with young and old Lost in thoughts and prayers The church loomed large White and pristine reaching for the sky…

Building a brand….

This appeared in the Harvard Business Review newletter. _______________________________ How Michael Jackson Became a Brand Icon 10:17 AM Friday June 26, 2009 Countless books advise how to build your personal…

Time flies

Its Friday and i dont know where the week went by. Seems like the days are floating by way too fast for me to savour them.

Errr.. Ummmm…

What do you think of the new look here?(survey)

Skywatch Friday … Towering heights!!

The Clouds going swish swish.. waving their magic wand on us all …:) Sun peaking from behind the trees as if to say goodbye!! Pretty skies amidst water and flowers…

Damn right i am…

You Are Dusk You are a naturally idealistic and creative person. You look forward to nights where everything is possible. You spend most of your energy on play.

Trails continued…

A boat jetty while on the train After the wonderful weekend trip it was time for a family outing.. Spent less than 24hours in Chennai before i was off on…

Hoysala trail… Coffee trail.. bird watching…!!

A day after our cousin’s wedding, Lakshmi called and that was it!! She and a friend were organising a tour, for close friends, as an inaugural offer..

Colours of Light…

Go with the flow, my heart sings.. Are you sure? counters the mind.. always thinking!! Simply let go and enjoy- i decide With a fully charged camera Waiting for new…

The road stretches on……

Back from one awesome trip and gearing up for another…. Been in town for less than 24hrs and the travel bug bite drags me away…. !!!

My very own…

Today was an exciting day… After a long wait, yearning for so long, i finally did it… Went and brought this gorgeous baby home!! 😉 Its black, sleek and awesome…

How u doin?!!!!

Its been a while since i came by here… What have you all been upto??? Tried clicking the night sky in a diff mode. Oh, me?

Battle within

Ever been through one of those phases where you had so much floating about in your mind, but you were unable to tackle them? Ever been through the phase where…

Summer …

Blazing sun Piercing rays Sweltering heat Sweat trickling from within Cold water Ice cream Tender coconut rage Melting chocolate The beach Hill stations Umbrellas Sunscreen Cotton suits Picnics Yearnin for…

Time to Unravel

Before i left for Bombay, a bunch of us had gone shopping at Spencers.. Went to Landmark to buy some toys for a little boy amidst us when i spotted…

Hey there..

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Read and help if you can or spread the word

Read this post on a fellow blogger’s blog… Touched me deep within and that is why am posting it here for all my friends/ readers!!!

I remember

everything and anything that has happened in my life till date!!! Strange yet true… The morning sky from the boat in bby Things people said Things i saw – could…

Where is the red carpet????

Am famous…. i am.. i really am… ok, maybe am not like famous famous… but well, i did feature somewhere other than my Blog!!! … 🙂 When i got an…

Bombay Pune and back….

[After sleeping pondering over how to draft this post, here it is.. finally…!!:)] The 3 awesome weeks – [28th March to 22nd April] that i shall remember forever…[atleast as long…

Bring it on……

Where are the ballloons let there be cheer Bring out the drums Roll out the red carpet…. Arent you glad. Am bacccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!! 🙂 I know you missed me Cmon, now…

All my bags..

are packed am ready to go I hate to wake you up to say goodbye But the dawn is breakin Its early morn The taxis waitin He’s blowin his horn…

I’ve known her

since college, 1995, and we grew closer with every passing year… and finally the last 2yrs before her[TR] marriage we were soul sisters.. every morning would begin with a call…

Attention please!!!

One of those days, when work was easy… and mind was wandering…. Thought i’ll chk out the Satyam website to see if any interesting movies are on… and was stumped…

Mixed bag!!!

Its weekend already…Wonder where the whole week… 5days went…Whoosh, it passed by, like those damned deadlines!!! 🙂 Its been one of those weeks that i am happy is over..

Random poem…

On Saturday evening a bunch of us Caferatians[i just made that word up:)] met up at Amethyst….TOI wanted to do a story on Caferati and so we all showed up…

Aa’art’i[s] life…

The weekend [actually it was Friday and Saturday], was quite a musical one…. Filled with Jazz and Latino moves!!! Saturday was Karadayan Nonbu for us… Ladies tie a yellow thread…

To burn or not…

Some of you have been privileged enough to know of the trauma I’ve been going through with this and others- well, worry not, you are about to be enlightened/entertained….

i dont wanna cook….

Phase 1 We had a part time cook at home.. he would come in the morning, make lunch, and dinner and scoot by 4ish… and then came a day when…

She’s 74 and she’s 19…..

March comes and we get all excited and chirpy chirp….. 1st was Gramma’s Bday, on March 5th…. Normally for her bday she will be in Sringeri, but since granpa was…

Shards of glass-II

Here‘s what happened…. and here is how it must have happened… I know its been a couple of days… But i kept at it with granpa on what he was…

Shards of glass…

is what i saw when i woke up today morning… Startled, scared, disoriented, i awoke to the noise of glasss shattering.. half groggy, i could make out granpa standing near…

Brad Pitt and Gatte ke Sabji…

What a lethal combo evening that was…. Me and S,a friend of mine decided to watch the movie, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button [Based on the short story by…

The Future…

As we race through the days time it runs ahead thoughts and wishes leading us on… With every step i take future i urge to grab dreams and hope keeping…

1st Photowalk…

This post is longggggggg due… Since Feb 22nd!! Wow, its nearly a week later and am just about getting ready to write about it..!!! 🙂 22nd Feb is was when…

Shots – 1!!!

Take a guess?? 😉 Few shots taken by yours truly over the past couple of days… All courtesy my swanky Nokia N95 8GB phone!! 😀 Candles in my bathroom!!

Blast from the past….

Past – According to me, it’s the time before today, before this very minute when am typing this post…. Something I’ve done, said, lived, seen, experienced, bought, enjoyed and so…

Feb 13 – 16…

13th the Friday – be wary all say!!! Dint care much for it… but that morning dint really start off well…saw granpa on the bed sleeping [ it was around…

Mistaken identity?

Couple of days back, when i was at the bank, got a call… Me: Hello She: hello ma’am, Am calling from Mr.AA’s office, can i get your email id pls?

I won…. i reallly did!!!

Its been a while… but i sure seem to not have lost my LUCK factor!!! 😀 Last week sometime,when i was going out somewhere, i heard a contest on Radio…

I can see clearly now!!! :D

I can see clearly now, the old frame is gone, I can see everything around me [ actually i could always see!!;)] Gone are the dark clouds that had me…

Long and short of it…..

Disclaimer – This is gonna be a long one!!! 🙂 Why is that the people are ever ready to give advice? esp when it is not their place to!!!

Learnings in life…

While watching Abhiyum Nanum, a thought struck me… we all learn at every stage in our lives..We go to school, college, learn from our parents , family etc etc….

Easy …Difficult

Was just thinking back on all that has been happening in life and decided to pen this post….[plus the fact that today i got ragged royally by friends about not…

Mystery of the Front page!!

Yesterday morning, uncle came over here[ grandparents house, as he normally does], picked up the TOI and kept flipping through the pages.. Was wondering why he was doing that and…

Bits and Bites…

2009 sure has begun with a bang i must say!!! And its been only what 20days so far! phew.. if these past few days is any indication, then am sure…

Destiny or what???

Its been one of those days… idling away, not doing anything…. To kill time, took up a blogthings quiz and it totallly woke me up!!!

At that moment….

Entered my life, like a wave against the shore Slowly sneaking in At that moment knew not what struck me but i knew, a friend in you, i had found…

About time, i say!!!

Howdy doody all you people out there??? Wish you a very very happpy New year!! I know, its nearly time for the Pongal wishes, but what the heck… This is…

Peek a boo…

here i come.. slowly resurfacing… gasping for air reaching out to familiar faces weeks and days sped by in a blur time i knew not where it flew work, took…

Recent shots

Hola… am back!!! :)

Gosh, its been so long since i was here… Just caught up wit work and life… NO time to breath or indulge in writing of any sort but work related!!!

Saree Shopping!!!

I;ve got tonnes of work, but no mood, so taking the time to write on my blog!!! 🙂 My cousin, L’s wedding is around the corner… And my sis and…

Diwali Miracle….

Belated Diwali wishes to all of you!!! [Pic courtesy:http://svn.haxx.se/] I had a good time, not because we ate n burst crackers, but because i dint work, and completely chilled out…

Alright, i give in… i Confess!!!

Caught..roped and tagged ..This time by sweet IHM [which was nearly 3wks back and also by Aparna asking me to bare my soul and reveal my addictions and quirks.

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Ahh, what would i do without my friends?? I would be lost and lonely Miserable and afraid but God has been kind to me in this one aspect!!!

Art of gifting!!!

“Oh, Thank you so much… What a thoughtful Gift“… [Thought running in mind: Oh,shucks, they have given me such a lovely gift, what do i give them in return?

Here’s some fresh stock ma’am….

Yesterday morning had to go S’s office to drop off a sample [related to work] and on the way back home, bumped into my colleague’s sis,V… Spent a few minutes…

Brain drain

its been 3 days…. and i feel like NOT doing anything, but just laying on the bed… everything else seems like an effort… but i cant..

Peek a Boo…

Gosh, i dint realise how long its been since i wrote a post.. well, work has taken over life, plus people at home were travelling, so had been busy with…

Happy de Birthday

Yup, its GOOGLE’s 10th Bday.… Awesome aint it!!! A search engine That is today more than just that…. Search in/Translate to various languages – Helps us communicate across the globe-…

Want nothing more…

Looking at all the “Thank God, its Friday” messages, i am filled with wonder.. is it just me, or is it just me? I’ve had a day like no other……

[tag] A for APPLE..Aaarti…. Ant….. B for…?????

Bit by the Tag bug once again… this time by my sweet Cousin/Sis L 🙂 RULES – The Tag name is A for Apple…. Give preference for regular sites… Ignore…

What’s in a name, right?

Today morning was reading the Times of India, when i came upon this article/story item… Koyambedu lady stabbed by thief, but corners him The woman in the news is Mrs…

One more.. for moi???

Gracias senor Vishesh for the Award!!!! ever since i began blogging seriously [ not serious posts, but regularly], its been awesome fun!! i’ve come across so many amazing writers, fun…

Shut it Please

rang de rang de rang de basanti mohe rang de basanti basanti rang de basanti basanti mohe rang de basanti rang de basanti rang de basanti yaara It’s my life…

[Food] Pumpkin Soup with Almonds!!!

Ever since i had tasted my 1st spoon of Pumpkin soup at Eden [no, not heaven, but the veggie restaurant in Chennai, click on the link, wont u!!

Curtain’s up!!

Phew.. this week was one heck of a week.. Hectic crazy busy and wacko fun!!! This is the follow up post to the previous one i had done about a…

Feast…. !!!

Yayy!! Am back!!! My life is back, heart beats with smile in every Thud… Oh,yes, you got it right… BSNL is back!!! mwahhh!!! 🙂 Why this title?

Let the celebrations begin!!

Last night at 12, the phone rang.. Saw my friend’s name flickering on the screen…. Answered with a smile on my face “hiee” and she sang “Happy birthday to you…

Am honored!!!

At the end of a long day, there is nothing more soothing than a cold drink or a special someone greeting you at the door… Now, i dint have a…

bsnl …. reliance….

Nope.. this aint a post about diff Telecom companies.. i am talking about why am away from Blogsville and rest of NET world… its all BSNL’s fault… the connection died…

[fiction or watever] The love!!!

She walked out onto the porch He looked up at her and then went back to staring into space… She sat next to him… put his head on her lap……

Ants in my ………….

Every morning, its become a routine… i get up, off my bed, and start looking around my room… Behind the curtains under the books near the computer table underneath my…

Oh, thank you… thank you!!!

My Blog journey has been quite interesting… I started blogging about 3yrs back.. but never really bothered much about writing regularly.. it was just a cache to store my poems…

[Tag] The yesterday… today … and Tomorrow…

And now, i attack the one sent by Churningthewordmill. The Rules of the tag are, ” Two questions in each category answer them and then tag your friends from the…

where the weekend took me

Friday Saturday Sunday Trichy, pudukottai, keeranur, thuraiyur and puliancholai forts, temples, caves fun, adventure was what i had over the weekend… pictures and stories coming soon!!! 😀

Word puddle

Was reading the post on Ceedy’s blog and got inspired , so here is my very own Word puddle… 😀

i wanna be PRESS too….

Today morning was coming back home from friend’s house and my auto and all other vehicles were halted by cops near Gemini Fly over for a couple of minutes… i…

Weekend, did you say??!!!

These days, my weekdays are more chilled out than weekend My friends keep saying “chill out and have a relaxed weekend gurl” and my weekends, esp Saturday’s are anything but…

Sneak peek into me

Doodle dum… doodle dee… 🙂 What Your Workspace Says About You You are an organized and detail oriented person. You have your life in order. You are hardworking and driven.

What the !@$%

Your damn right am hopping mad… Just read this ad in the classifieds of a useless magazine (i call it useless cos if they publish stuff like this, and they…

F.R.I.E.N.D.S….. My World!!

Yesterday was Friendship Day… Do we really need a day to honor a beautiful bond between Friends? Do we need fancy cards and mushy mushy words to express our feelings…

The sunday!!

Wow, today was a day when i actually dint do anything… Yep, am just chilling out today!!! All i did was — – call up a friend who’s Birthday it…

Fun with pictures…

One of those things i do when i have a bit of spare time or when am on the bed unable to sleep…. play around with my phone camera~!

[Recipe] Pad Thai noodles a la Box…

Couple of days back when i was scrounging about at Nilgiris (the supermarket near home), i came upon these boxes with cute noodle pics on them… Upon closer inspection, i…

[Tag] What Inspires Me??!!

Been inspiringly tagged by Vishesh … This is a very interesting tag, its all about sharing about those who/which have inspired me in life… A way of saying “Thank you…

Theater opens in Chennai!!

Its that time of the year once again… the screens are about to open people waiting for the doors to open An evening spent with actors, performances and words!!

Burst of Joy!!!

Saturday was one hellova day!! your probably thinking i did something wacko, or partied hard.. nope, sorry to burst your bubble, but it was quite a hectic day..

Glimpse~!

Tequila n Salt!!

Tequila and Salt This should probably be taped to your bathroom mirror where one could read it every day. You may not realize it, but it’s 100% true. 1.

Emotions run amock

The past week has been kinda difficult for all of us.. i cant really say difficult, more like something we were not looking forward to..

What a contrast~

Got back to sweltering HOT POWER CUT filled Chennai today morning… Oh, Gosh, the minute i stepped off the train, i could feel the sweat and the heat… shucks..

What a weather~~~

This place makes me wish i could stay here forever… The lovely cool weather is just sinful!! can go about walking through the city n not feel tired loads of…

Man Vs Beast

For those of you who are wondering what this is about, well, i saw this TV show called Man Vs Beast on AXN [if i remember right] and it just…

Me

I have decided i am gonna pen down some stuff about me that fascinate me and people around me…. [blowing my own trumpet i know…but heck, why not~] – i…

[3WW] The Dreams Villa

A little something for this week’s 3WW What are you doing outside, son? Well, Sir, i thought it was inappropriate for me to barge in without knocking and when i…

Celebration of sorts

July 11th is a day that began with some wonderful thots in my mind… as i got out of bed, i remembered it was my Friend B’s bday [college mate…

Alms to give or earn?

Today morning while walking to our nearby store, i came across not one, but atleast 4 women begging.. some had kids, and others were using their children to beg..

Changed…

hey last evening while i was talking to my uncle, i realised that i need to change the url of my other blog – Tapestry of words, where i write…

Mosaic of my life…

Picked up this tag from Vrij‘s blog and thought why not~~~ Here are the rules of this tag. 1. Type your answer to each of the questions below into Flickr…

Good morning Children…. :)

Amidst a lot of stale and logic free ads, i saw this one.. it stood out, like the Lead India campaign by TOI… Finally, a company that has come out…

3WW… Might of the word

After a brief hiatus, am back on 3WW I cant control them anymore, the words seem to pour out for no reason. Every day as i wake up, the only…

Am Omnipresent…. did u know!!`

Was working in my room when i heard the gate being rattled.. peeped out the window and saw someone standing there.. Asked him “yaarunga.. [who’s that?]” to which our man…

Weekend Trails Map..

In case anyone is interested or wishes to know more about the places we went to.. here is a map… 🙂

weekend trails.. Part II

Day 2 Sunday, 29th June Sunday dawned bright and early… we had showered, changed and ready to go by 7… Went downstairs, had breakfast (came complimentary with the room) and…

Weekend trails – Part I

Butterflies in the tummy…. Excitement in the eyes, I looked forward to the weekend… Friday night had us( me and my travel crazy friend S) talking about Tranquebar, and wanting…

Tag.. vida en seises:)

Eeks, hooked and caught once again… Vishesh has tagged me…. here goes, this tag says i gotta describe my life in 6 words… just 6… hmm, let me give it…

Weekend adventure

This weekend, me and a friend,S, decided to hop skip and jump outta Chennai and go away somwhere… spend the weekend away from the usual routine, or watching movies and…

Salute to Jane McGrath~~

Been meaning to put up this post, but just kept slipping by.. I am a big fan of cricket… and my fav team are the Aussies..

Happy 30th Birthday, Garfield!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, GARFIELD! ‘s favorite fat, lazy, lasagna-loving feline turned 30 on June 19th… Yayyy!!! Ahem, to think Garf is as old as moi… hmmmm… interesting~~ 😉

What Happened????

Warning: Am pissed off and on a rampage here.. I know, this is a post about a movie, so, why isnt it in my other blog?

What the #$%^!!!

Yesterday, mom and i were out, and had to fill fuel in the car.. Drove into the TVS petrol bunk on Mount Road and saw there was a long queue……

[Tag] Curtain Raiser

Egad… Another tag, this time its to do with me, and only me. IndianHomeMaker tagged me, and so me being a good girl that i am[winks] and taking the torch…

This is me….

What philosophy do you follow? (v1.03) You scored as HedonismYour life is guided by the principles of Hedonism: You believe that pleasure is a great, or the greatest, good; and…

Freeze….

No ice cream Not Madonna’s song… Not cold weather either, no way.. While surfing the net, came across this video, and was fascinated… got me thinking, what it would be…

[Tag] Viva life…. :)

Chakoli madame tagged meee… eeks, and its been sitting there, waiting for me to complete.. and today is the Day.. finally managed to find time and realized i am bored…

The Noodles..

The noodles i made last nite… Here is the cherished recipe.. or rather lack of it… Here is what you need- Noodles- any kind, and any quantity(actually depends on how…

New addition to my room..

During my Delhi trip [ which happened long long ago.. in sep 07], i had picked up this chime from Dilli Haat [ what an evening it was, had been…

Nostalgia with Noodles

Today, after gym, walked over to Nilgiris supermarket, bought some stuff and when passing by the noodles/pasta isle was reminded of my college days [ i used to take noodles…

Banes of the net world..

Its a case of either or… and i wonder if ever i will have Both.. am i being greedy? i sure hope not… Am talking about the BSNL broadband and…

Do a good deed… earn some brownie points… :)

Last week, when i had cleaned out my cupboard.. i discarded a few sets of dresses, which were in good conition, but i was not gonna wear em anymore..

The weekend that rocked…

Phew.. weekend is over and a new week has begun… the week was good fun.. – Last week, Work had eased up and i wasnt spending as much time in…

[Info] Chennai Bloggers Meet….

Am a member on Indiblogger and so got this msg… But i guess its open to anyone interested, so putting it up here…. Am kinda looking fwd to it, will…

Simple Joys of life – III

More things to smile about…. 1. Meeting a friend who’s just lost her dad recently and spending time with her…[even if it incl watching a crapppy movie..he he he… Woodstock…

ha ha.. wacko fun…

Saw these quizzes on Priya’s blog and thought, what the heck… here is what they said about me… 🙂 What Animal Were You In Your Past Life? You were platypus.

Yayyy…1st fruit…

Na, i aint gonna talk about some new fruit in the market.. or something i tried 1st time… Today, Floppy had his 1st apple…hehehe… i have tried gtting him to…

[Food] Kozhukattai payasam

A dessert that i love.. next to Jevvarisi(sabudana) payasam is probably this dish that i call Kozhukattai payasam.. Gramma makes the dough like they do for kozhukkatai..

Rendezvous with friends @Anokhi

Friday was a day when i got to spend time with friends i dont meet that often… and more than who i met, it was where i met that made…

Something to think about

Came upon a quote…. “A good novel tells us the truth about it’s hero; but a bad novel tells us the truth about its author. “ true?

Double Bonanza … :)

My friends are my world.. and there are a few who’ve been with me since college..over a decade now.. phew.. 🙂 There is this one dear dear darling friend R…

Simple Joys of life-II

here are some more things that make me smile… 🙂 – going for a movie- Ironman with sis and cousin [decide last minute, hurrry burry book tickets and dash outta…

The live mouse trap…

Na, we dont have a mouse at home.. eeeks.. we would all be screaming from one end to the other… 🙂 this is something different..

Simple Joys of life

# Watching a movie with a dear darling friend(actually she is more like a sis, or a mother to me.. very maternal n protective…), her kids and her sis’s daughters..

All i can do.. all i can say….

A day no different work and routine taking over my time time passed on till dusk fell “time to bid hello to doctor”, granpa said Stuck in traffic jam mind…

IPL fever…

Yes, i admit.. i am a cricket fan but not like crazy wacko …. sitting glued in front of the tv, screaming whenever something major happens I enjoy the match…

Eggless Chocolate Cake in Microwave.. Yummmy

Couple of days back, my dear friend A called asking if i wanna come Shopping with her( she wanted to buy something for her hubby, since it was his bday)..

[55er] Her

Flapping her wings, she tries to break free; refusing to budge, her feet stay grounded. “Panic sets in” Will I ever? But, what about when everyone…?

Guess what i brought home… :)

No, no, i dint bring home another dog or puppy.. i wish i could.. all i did was go to a computer expo, happening at Valluvar Kottam and pick up…

[Food] Rasam

Rasam.. no, i am not talking about the liquid made with tamarind and daal that we eat with rice, but am talking about this cool Restaurant run by Shri Krishna…

Words are all i got

Type i do hundred a minute; Speak i do dime a dozen Mind of mine runs as fast as it can, Brain trying hard to catch up and stay focussed…

[fun]…. men and shopping.. ;)

This is why women should not take men shopping against their will. After I retired, my wife insisted that I accompany her on her trips to Wal-Mart.

Yet again… Ouch… Tagged.. ;)

Vishesh has tagged me, once again… darn it~!! Now, if only i had oodles of time, i would have done this 1st.. lolz.. but, i must say, tags are fun..

[Writer’s island] Soul…

sunlight piercing through the skin sweat dripping from every pore days seem to go never ending nights wish they went on forever summer God, i hate this climate winter will…

Am a Sucker for Mehndi…. :)

Dont know when it started but i loveeeeeeeeeeee Mehndi… Anywhere, any friend or family getting married.. i mite not attend the wedding but Mehndi party..

[tag] Fun with Musique

Came upon this tag on Kavitha‘s blog, and seemed like fun, so taking it from there… 🙂 [yep, got some spare time to kill..actually have work, but just putting it…

Dad turned 60… and we had celebrated in style…

Am back.. after a brief stint of goin invisible, things have settled down and we are all back to routine… was away from net/blog for abt 5-6days… 🙂 a lot…

[3WW] Memories

here is my contribution for today’s 3WW. interesting words…. got my creative cells going.. reminiscing the good ol days.. 🙂 Memories Rusty old chairs Creaking with every move eyes hovering…

Time noted…

Past couple of weeks i’ve been noticing this thing i’m doing… unknowingly… Everyday… without missing a single day … i swear I look at my phone, or the clock and…

[Two for Tuesday] Start over..

My 1st attempt on Two for Tuesday prompts… The night was cold streets were empty the silent moon glowing in the dark knew not if the act he committed was…

one more.. Tagged..

Here we go again…. No, am not singing the song, but talking abt yet another tag! This time Vishesh has passed the baton onto me, and here i go..

Bump Bump.. Do i know you??? :)

Was reading this post on Chakoli‘s blog and brought on the idea for this post of mine… 🙂 I’ve had more than my share of bumping into people i know…

Worms on a platter?

Like caterpillars? Those tiny green wriggley crawlies??? You must have played with one of them when you were small, as a toy.. and am sure you’ve seen some wriggling around…

[Writers Island] She stares…

For this week’s prompt on Writer’s Island.. walking into the room light shining in the corner of her eyes strides across the floor wrapping hands around shoulder keeping her soul…

[fun] What’s your inner color….. i have an inner color???;)

Your Inner Color is Yellow Your Personality: Life’s too short not to have fun. Your bright energy brings joy and laughter to those around you.

Happy birthday daddy…

Its the month of Birthdays…. Today is my dad’s birthday…. He turns 60… 😀 A person from whom i have learnt about life love and caring a person who has…

yikesss… one more Tag…10 years from now!

This time i got tagged by another blog buddy, Vishesh.Quite an interesting one and made me think (something you all know i dont do very often) 10 years from now..

Mind…

My first attempt at the 3WW prompt… do let me know what you thought… just a few words that i managed to string together… 🙂 Saw u standing tall looking…

[sharing] my baby sister turns 18 today… :)

Wow, feels like yesterday that i held her in my arms, a little baby girl wriggly and cute… years seem to have flown by she is is almost all grown…

so,what else?

The dreaded words “So,what else?” i hear these words and it makes me wonder what do i have in common with the person i am talking to?

[sharing] chk this out… Mac Air

Talk about class.. and sleeek… 😉

Yikes… Tagged…. :)

A friend of mine, Vik has tagged me… i wonder why, but hey some of them are fun.. so me gonna take my turn to do the tag and pass…

ChEcK tHiS oUt …..Ammm Populahhhh… ;)

Was killing some spare time on Orkut, actually i’ve got work to do, but one of those times when i dont feel like working.. so killing time….

what a break it was…

No, i dint break anything.. i swear.. 🙂 Just talking abt the break i had in Blore … which happened over abt 5days and ended on 5th march….

[Cooking] Breakfast recipes

My all time favorite breakfast is rice flakes (we call it aval in tamil.. think its poha in hindi).. it is so easy to cook and tastes yummy too.

[Sharing] yayyy, new bundle of joy in the house…

The birth of a baby is such a wonderful occasion , not just for the new parents but people all around. it means, another generation has sprung and there is…

[Cooking] Bombay Chutney

Just another boring Sunday… well, not so boring thanks to the match between Aussies and India, where needless to say my team= Aussies won~~~ yipeee~~ but India did put up…

friends vs family

“Choose your friends carefully, for they are the ones who help mould your life” a saying i’ve heard so many times.. from family members, and other relatives..

[Sharing] fun HR life… :)

For all of you who are in HR or working in a corporate… chk this out…. worth it~~~ 🙂 www.hr.com/historylesson 🙂 ———————– HR lingo… always wondered what your HR is…

[sharing] easy..difficult…

Easy is to get a place is someone’s address book. Difficult is to get a place in someone’s heart. Easy is to judge the mistakes of others Difficult is to…

Happiness

There are days when we are so bogged down by life that we wonder what is Happiness.. ya, ya, i know its a state of mind and not really something…

Love is in the Air.. and everywhere else too.. :)

Yesterday…. Feb 13th… just another regular boring day You wake up… have breakfast.. go to college/work/or jus loaf about Day goes by… talk to ur love or maybe exchange a…

Videos worth a watch…

Some videos from youtube that are kickass and fun to watch… Awesome editing… When you got time but dont know what to do… here is an idea… ;o)

Remote control

Whoa.. Looks like the world today is going towards the PARANOID way…. Read this and you will know what am talking about… tsk tsk… 😛

[Cooking] Sabudana Vada

Gramma had been wanting to make Sabudana aka Jevarisi Vada the past couple of days.. She had eaten some yummmy vadas during their last trip to Bby at a relatives’…

[TV] House…

Gosh.. this TV Soap is kick asss.. and damn addictive…. this is a cool video compilation….

[survey] .. Movies and me..

Since i had a bit of time.. decided to do this MOVIE survey and put it up here… 🙂 1. Name a movie that you have seen more than 10…

[Quiz] Tarot….

You are The Star Hope, expectation, Bright promises. The Star is one of the great cards of faith, dreams realised The Star is a card that looks to the future.

[Cooking] Kofta in Spinach gravy

After long, was watching tv in the evening with my gramma… we were surfing channels looking for something she wanted to watch.. since we dint find it, went over to…

[news] Heath Ledger dead….

Just saw it on one of the sites and was stunnned..shocked…. I was looking fwd to watching him in Patriot.. loved him in Brokeback Mountain.. an amazing actor..

[Cooking] MicrowaveCarrot halwa.. my 1st attempt

During my recent trip to Mumbai, i had carrot halwa at my friend’s house. . she and her hubb had tried out this recipe in their new Microwave..

Eeeks…. scary as hell………The hairy caterpillars

Today we had a mini war at home.. and no, i was not fighting with mom or my sis, it was between me,mom, uncle and the hairy caterpillars… they were…

Happpy Pongal… Pongal Nalvazthukkal

Come January, and all of us gear up for the Harvest festival of Pongal (aka Thai pongal.. Thai=tamil month, pongal=being the festive day and the food item prepared on that…

Another ad that is beautiful – Lead india

This is yet another video that touched my heart… beautifullly taken… wonder why so many of us hesitate to take the 1st step and wait for someone else to start….

An ad that means something… touches a string… :) Airtel…

[Writer’s island] Over the horizon

From the hammock in the balcony i watched the sun take a peek slwoly rising from behind the towering building it made its way into the clear blue sky I…

Cherished memoriesss…

I was recently on a lovely holiday to Mumbai.. a city that has left me wanting more.. and missing all the amazing friends i have there~~~ – my friends mean…

[TV shows] new concept… Ali Saleem aka The Bhegum

Was surfing thru the channels, and came upon BBC where they were showing a program about Pakistan and how it has evolved or not thru the years… and one snippet…

Happy Holidays n wonderful New Year…

Looking back at the months gone by, As an old one ends making way for a New Year, We contemplate on what brought us joy, And think of our loved…

[Theater] PIF plays

Over the past couple of months, everytime we had a readmeet, i got to know little bit more about the concept of PIF – Politically Incorrect festival..

Chills and thrills

four seasons we know em all i was yet to see what Winter felt like living here in this warm land i knew not what it was to feel cold…

Bringing back sweet memories… “Frangipani”

I was in delhi couple of mths back.. and thats when i got to spend a lot of time with my baby cousin Lakshmi.. she is adorable and angelic….

Happy Birthday Floppy… :)

Yipeee.. Floppy turned one today.. for those who dont know him, he is my baby.. my angel… my gift from God… my doggie… 🙂 I sure am lucky to have…

2007 Mixed bag`

Was just thinking about how this year was and here are the thoughts that poured in…. This year has been different from the one’s before..

” The graveyard as bustling café”… Yewwwwwww….

yep, that is the headline in today’s edition of The Hindu in the Newscape section.. i read it and was like “yewwww”.. how can someone have coffee in a graveyard..

Eight Gifts That Do Not Cost A Cent

The Gift of Listening… But you must really listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening. The Gift of Affection… Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats…

Whatta name for a street….

Today on my way towards Mount road, i caught site of something i just have to share with all.. wen going thru Greams road, about 100yards ahead of Asan memorial…

[cooking] Spinach daal

Yesterday, got a chance to cook after long.. our cook had taken off.. i saw this interesting recipe in the paper and decided to try it out.. i love SPinach..

[video] Jeff Dunham ;o) [hold on to ur bellies]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeff_Dunham

Lola Kutty

Was still surfing through the pages of the “Woman” magazine.. Oct issue [yes,thats how updated i am …lolz] i saw an interview wiht this cute gal, Anuradha menon, from chennai…

Plants.. no more..

Was just browsing through this magazine called “Woman” and found this interesting article about plants that one can have at home… only difference being , they are not real plants..

Caferati – readmeet of sorts – 18th Nov

Last Saturday we had our meet at Mocha, and this time it was not the usual write something on a topic, read it out, etc kinda readmeet..

Got a new chair

Yipeee.. i finally got my new computer chair.. been wanting to buy one for a while.. and did it yesterday…. but i gotta wait till tomorrow to use it..

Mind your manners plsss…. duh~!!

God, it pisses me off when people come for concerts and cant stop talking… today eve we had gone for the last show of Nov fest and there were these…

What kinda news is this…

Day before was flipping thru the paper(The hindu) in the morning and saw this as part of main headlines. . was stumped… i dint know if i shd be happy…

ha ha ha….

Now, this guy is the ultimate… he has me laughing no matter wat state of mind i am in.. and i know many of you enjoy his comics n take…

Diwali….

What a day it was…. Diwali – the festival of lights was sure bright and lovely~~~ The day started off around 8am with me saying Good morning (had been working…

May the festival of lights be the harbinger of joy and prosperity. On the occasion of Diwali when the atmosphere is filled with the spirit of love, here’s hoping this…

10 Principles to follow..

Have read this earlier and today came across something similar on a networking site… Pretty interesting and easy to follow.. give it a shot… 🙂 10 PRINCIPLES Stop and ask…

I won… i won…. :)

I’ve always been crazy about english music and movies.. and back when i was in college, used to be glued to the radio Times FM between 7-9pm, and have entered…

Tequila…

Ever since i saw the episode on Travel n living or one of those travel channels, i have been curious about tequila.. especially cos of the way they drink it..

Tunes of the wind…

Trees dancing wildly to the tunes of the wind People running helter skelter to the force of the breeze Water gushing forth keeping pace with the pouring rain Roads flooded…

What an experiment

Was catching up with a dear friend of mine,V who had come from out of town on some work.. And we were talking about partying and about what it means…

Brewing liquid….

Yet another poem that i wrote for the Read-meet we had on 13th Oct at Mocha… the theme was Rain or beverage… one could either write on them individually or…

Rain rain, dont go away…..

as i walk along this lonely road deep in the middle of the night in the distance i see a light a blink after another and a gentle roar look…

On that rainy day~!!

Sky looking so forlorn Clouds gathering close Looks like a new world coming alive On that rainy day Trying to catch the sun There is no way my eyes can…

The Sunscreen song

Was having a chilled out evening over a cup of coffee with a good friend of mine, S, when we started humming the song playing in the background, a Bryan…

Lights…. camera… click click…. :)

An evening at Amethyst and i was looking up at the sky…. saw the light bulb suspending from the tree while watching cricket match late at night, i love playing…

Butterfly….

Sitting atop that pretty flower i saw your wings glisten in the sunlight colorful and light you flitted about worries i am sure u had none at all Going about…

what a life….

The state of a cobbler near my house.. had taken one of my footwear to be fixed and saw the place he calls his work place… a shack on the…

Ganesha n Happinesss

Vinayaka Chathurthi @ home A festival celebrated in the month of avani on chaturthi (4th) day .Vinayaka is the first to be worshipped whenever we start anything and he holds…

Twists and turns in life..

HAPPPY VINAYAK CHATHURTHI.. Today was a lovely special lucky day for me…. so am all smilesss and happy… This past couple of months have been interesting, to say the least……

Bisi Bela bath aka Sambar sadam

Bisi Bela Bath/ Sambar sadam as we call it at home…. What you need: [measure are what i used for 7people,just use the proportion you need depnding on number of…

Feliz cumpleanos

May you live all the days of your life. – Jonathan Swift My Big day was just around the corner … the day i had been looking fwd to as…

Friends are family

There are times when i have these mini fights at home about how much time i spend with friends vis a vie time spent at home..

Some more quotes…

All words are pegs to hang ideas on. ~ Henry Ward Beecher It took me fifteen years to discover that I had no talent for writing, but I couldn’t give…

Questions…

What is it makes our life complete? is it having certain people or accomplishments or money or all of them or jus being happy and content?

Butterflies

For some reason, i’ve been fascinated by these beautiful creatures.…. Butterflies….. wonder why.. maybe cos they seem so free, so colorful and go about their life flying from one place…

A weekend like never before… :)

No,am not talking about this weekend,duh~ its just starting, am referring to the one that went by.. Oh,what a weekend it was.. absolutely amazing and way too much fun..

Quotes about writing.. interesting…

Some cool quotes on writing that i came across.. The reason one writes isn’t the fact he wants to say something. He writes because he has something to say. F.

Lost souls.. in our home..

Bugger, the bat i found at our gate, with a whole army of crows waiting to attack it..wonder what this guy was doing out in daylight..

Thalagam… Aadi dish….

Come aadi and this dish becomes a popular one.. Esp on Aadi chevvai, ie. the tuesdays in the tamil month of Aadi(which is NOW) and so gramma went about getting…

Some more CLicks…

Found some more pics in my treasure chest… so decided to put it up here instead of hunt for a site to upload on… The ceiling in Satyam theater…..

HI tech or wat….

Monday morn, got this on mail from a friend.. and well,i wonder if its true or not..but anyways, its interesting alright… Technology on street.. A techie transfers fund for a…

[Cooking] Mushroom Stroganoff

Today lunch was fun. No,I dint go out but tried out a new recipe and must say it turned out yummy.. Thanks to my uncle for introducing me to this…

More CLicks………

Waiting at the traffic signal, with nothing to do as my sis and her best budd were busy talking to each other..totally ignoring me… duh… i pulled out my weapon,armed…

CLick… CLick….

A collection of pics i clicked on my phone past couple of days…. no reason,no theme..jus liked em and so captured the moment…. 🙂 My cousin at Satyam theater cafe..

[from another site]10 virtually instant ways to improve your life

Came upon this link thru a friend on a networking website and thought it was very interesting and i wanted it on my blog so i would read it on…

Fun… interesting…

Wow, its already 15th july.. The past couple of weeks has been so busy, but good.. had uncle(s) visiting from Delhi n USA, so that always bring a joy to…

Do we really need a phone… sigh~!!

Phones & phone companies…. what a pain… Last morning I saw an sms in my gramma’s mobile saying that the chq given for the bill payment had been returned by…

Tagged… darn it… :)

My Friend Aru,sent me a message on Ryze. go chk your blog and do as i say.. Now,if someone else had written that i would be like “what the…” but…

Silence 1

Close your eyes, relax. Listen to the sound of silence Tranquillity, calmness Allow your heart to savor the beauty of silence. Leaves rustle in the garden. Butterflies gently flutter.

Silence 2

Sitting in a crowded room Filled with people and music hear nothing silence Surrounded by friends filled with warmth and love feel nothing silence Trudging through life filled with ups…

Sanjeevanam – healthy eating…

My friend and i had decided to go out for lunch and we zeroed in on this place, cos we’d both heard abt it but not been there..

Frustration… helplessness

All of us at home are going thru a very stressful period now.. an aunt,gramma’s sis is very ill,she has breast cancer, and she kept it from all of us…

Lance Armstrong – Its not about the bike

After reading the book,“Its not About the bike by Lance Armstrong” , I am just totally amazed at Lance Armstrong’s personality,his courage, determination and strength in fighting testicular cancer, which…

Read meet 15th April..2 years gone by :)

The evening of 15th April was actualy fun.. and am glad i went… left home around 4.15, n reached oxford at 4.25, to see that Hema, sivakami,Elka , ramanathan and…

Kids….

Last evening an aunt called (for me everyone who is a lady,who is related to me, and typically those for whom I don’t know wat my exact relation is or…

Life’s journey

My journey of life begun That fateful Sunday morn My eyes opened to see this world My soul,and heart emerged alive lo,behold my journey had begun!

Women, Widows and Water

Women, Widows and Water …. I had read the book couple of months back and have shared with all the experience I had gone through upon reading it.

Life …….

Years have flown by many miles covered Goals,i see not very far waiting to be reached. Every little step i take filled with choices and decisions twist and turn my…

new age rhymess..

Twinkle Twinkle Little star How i wonder what you are, Wont you come down from afar We can go for a ride in my daddy’s car Up above the world…

no more

Tall,dark and beautiful sweet like the verses of Keats lined along the streets my heart,it feels a pull 1,2,3 I count no more numbers i know galore this is as…

eAuthor -Oxford bookstore

Hey Wanted to share with you last evenings experience.. I got a mail from Hema,of caferati that the e- Authors award function is happening at Oxford bookstore, and so i…

Queen of Dreams…

Was reading this book called Queen of Dreams by Chitra Divakaruni, the book that is all about Interpretation of dreams where the main Protagonist not only dreams about herself but…

Blore it is.. alas trip came to an end…3

Day 5 Couldn’t sleep much and so was up by 7… lolled abt in the bed and finally got off.. showered and had breakfast and that was when vincent sms’d…

Blore it is.. 2

Day 3 Tuesday, the day I was looking fwd to.. Cos in the eve we had Mehta’s reception and then we were off to hosur… had spoken to my uncle…

Blore trip… the saga begins… 1

A week in Cool city It had been a while since I traveled and using my friend’s weddings as an excuse I decided to spend some time before and after…

December ….

The phone rang and woke me up at 6am today and now am wishing i hadnt answered it.. Sigh… Brought the news that an aunt who had been ill for…

Ella and her haven …

The minute you walk into her room, you can smell the pot pourri in that beautiful blue vase sitting in the window bay, and a candle leaning against with the…

Tete á Tete

Tete á Tete What does one do after settling into a new place? . Get down to business of course. And so like any sane person I too decided it…

The eve with my friend…

Day before evening, I called my friend meenal and we decided to meet up at her place around 6pm.. Were talking about meeting at Café coffee day but then she…

Life is a flower …

We live in a free world I whistle down the wind Carry on smiling And the world will smile with you Life is a flower So precious in your hand…

A Reel M n B story – Vivaah

Member’s Rating of this Product: Member’s Recommendation of this Product: Yes Plot: Cast Performance: Sound Track: Cinematography: Pros: Shahid kapoor and Amrita rao Cons: Too many songs, Slow pace For…

The Hunt is on~!

Member’s Rating of this Product: Member’s Recommendation of this Product: Yes Plot: Cast Performance: Sound Track: Cinematography: Now for all of you who are Kamal hassan fans, am sure you’ve…

Spice up your life -Mistress of Spices

I had read the book The Mistress of Spices by Chitra Divakaruni about 2years back,but dint really enjoy it that much and so when the movie came out in 2005…

‘Blink’ of an eye

When I heard about this book from a friend, I wasn’t too sure what kind of a book it would be. Couple of months later, I spotted it in my…

Anything For you Ma’am – Tushar Raheja

Anything But this please.. The last time I was in Landmark, I saw this movie in the latest release list and it had also been received well in The Hindu…

What Time Of Day Are You?

What Time Of Day Are You? You Are Sunrise You enjoy living a slow, fulfilling life. You enjoy living every moment, no matter how ordinary.

Corporate – The world hidden within

Member’s Rating of this Product: 4/5 Member’s Recommendation of this Product: Yes Plot: 4/5 Cast Performance: 4/5 Sound Track: 4/5 Cinematography: 3/5 Pros: Direction,screenplay Cons: subtle similarities to the pepsi…

Othello …

Something exciting happened with me a couple of days back and wanted to share with you all– Had been to watch Othello[by Can&Abel,from Delhi,which was part of the MetroPlus theater…

Bringing the house down..literally!!:)

Bringing the house down..literally!!:) By: aaroo4 | Aug 12, 2005 05:37 PM Member’s Rating of this Product: Member’s Recommendation of this Product: Yes Plot: Cast Performance: Sound Track: Cinematography: Pros…

It aint no joy ride…

Taxi Taxi – Hello Hello – Taxi Taxi Taxi – Take me away I’m ready to leave The party’s over I’m due for a change Waiting for transportation Getting so…

Watch who’s at the door

The name of the movie is Being Cyrus, now this obviously makes one wonder what kind of a movie this is. Is it about Cyrus or is it about a…

Twists and turns in Life…

Brokeback mountain – now who hadnt heard of this movie.. All the hype, the Oscars,not to mention Director-Ang Lee, yup, all these drew me to the movie as well.

Go Sisters….

In Her shoes, a movie that has been made based on the book of the same name is a story about two sisters, who are so different from each other…

Wanna know a Rumor….!!

Rumor has it… what? you might ask.. All i can say is, wait for the story to unfold and you’l know.. 🙂 The title intrigued me and so i watched…

Why I love writing ~ !!

The minute my fingers touch the keyboard or the pen, I can feel my mind becoming free and words flowing out from God knows where and they make me smile…

Boss

I thought about you earlier today flashes of memory haunting me. I see your face when i look outside hiding behind that giant tree. I often find my self, calling…

The playground

Words and emotions playing with my mind, moods, like a see-saw, rocking my world. Nights and days make no difference,for thoughts of you, like a merry-go round, linger on and…

New beginnnings

Clouds smile down on me as they sail along up in the clear sky. wonder if they know what i’ve just heard am so happy i wanna scream and shout.

Just me

I’m just one person That’s who i call “Me” Sure there are people all around Some walk by Some even pass me by Not a glance Dont even want to…

call ……….

Its early Clock flashes 6.10 AM I turn to my side With eyes half open Hunt for the phone Yea the cellphone! Unlock the keypad Locate his number Hmm,am so…

Strings

I Swing I Dance You’ll love me at very first glance Will want to have me For one and all to see I am very colorful and bright Warm smiles…

Temptation

Dark and Tempting Sweet or Bitter Craving and Longing Pure delight Makes u go-Hmmmmm Can never resist Always losing control Some say- Divine Others say – Romantic Take your pick!

Gift- NEw life

New Life Plastic moulded chairs Yellow,Blue and Green Neatly lined against the pale blue walls Air filled with tension Anxiety written on our faces Holding hands,Heart beating faster Speaking in…

Chosen path

Twists and turns Curves and Swerves winding like the mountain; Around the bend a surprise a mystery. Traditions, Principles Restraining Controling the soul; Temptations, Aches Surpassing Breaking barriers deep within…

Release me………

Release me From this bind that is Rigid and Stiff. Turmoil and Grief I am left with. Release me From your heart filled with Doubts and accusations.

See-saw

I am ready To take it in my sride The Changes The Transformation Be it In me or Things around Now,Today or ‘Morrow Surprises Pain and Hurt Longing to learn…

More about me…

Your Personality Profile You are dependable, popular, and observant. Deep and thoughtful, you are prone to moodiness. In fact, your emotions tend to influence everything you do.

Gone are the days~!

Gone are the days when time stood still, when days moved slow. staring into space,eyes searching and probing… Gone are the days when control was my slave, when desires were…

This is me!!!!

Your Birthdate: September 4 Being born on the 4th day of the month should help make you a better manager and organizer. You may be more responsible and self-disciplined than…

Talent? hidden?? me??u sure!!! :)

Your Hidden Talent You are a great communicator. You have a real way with words. You’re never at a loss to explain what you mean or how you feel.

Am i a Virgo??

You are 87% Virgo How much do you match your zodiac sign?

“Secret” – my 1st ever poem

Here is something my mind made up after a long crazy day..and yea,it rhymes tooo:)Sounds ok to me..lemme know ur take on it… “Secret” I’ve created a new word It’s…

If Only………..

If only these walls could talk, you would hear the unspoken words. If only these walls could hear, you would see the unshed tears. If only these walls could reach…

I give up~!!

Alphabets,words and images they play around in my head day after day waiting for me, to take hold and string them up, make some sense. ! , .

Butterflies

Butterflies “My heart,picks up pace My mind , starts to freeze My hands, start to tremble Wonder what is happening to me! Feel like I’m losing control I’m nervous, inside…

Gathering of Minds over Muses

Gathering of Minds over Muses On June 11th, the details for the 4th Read meet had been finalized and all left Avinash Subramanian’s residence with a smile and thoughtful look…

Empty Spaces

In my mind, If i go far enough I can see Empty spaces… No wires or cables, To cut across my thoughts. No dug up roads with signboards, Offer me…

The Walk…

Walking on the beach, the wind brushing my face, the waves seeming to be out of my reach, the ocean breeze filled with grace, the feel of the sand, on…

When we were…

When we were young, the world was so innocent. when we were young, the world was one big playground. when we were young, we thought we knew everything.

A day in the life of the ………….

Every morning, that damned ritual begins Struggling for life,for a piece of bread.Oh! what a plight? Is this the price i pay, for committing those invisible sins!

Marriage!!~

This is what i came up with on the topic Marriage!!! Make the down payment for the house Buy a car Furnish the house Fill the cupboards Is this what…

A woman’s day is never done!!! :)

A Woman’s day is never done… Woman: Hello God! Yet another day has dawned and here I am once again in front of you. Please make sure Gan gets to…

Honey,you broke my leg!!!

For a spot exercise we did at a poetry circle meet … the sentence i got was “ we went dancing last evening and i broke your leg” A lil…

the crow

THE CROW by Aarti Black and beautiful dark and mysterious Caw caw,he goes waiting for some leftovers Sitting on live wires perched on window sills shouts of cry when another…

My Favourite Things!!

My Favourite Things!! Long lazy afternoons,over warm cup of tea Girls night out and a Tom cruise movie, Smell of new leather, feel of black silk saree, These are a…

Free at last!!

Free at last!! Shia marched into her room, slammed the door shut and fell on the bed tossing the unfinished novel and her mobile on one side.

India tomorrow!!!

Caste and religious differences,a thing of the past Schools and colleges, free from capitation and donation Hands that once begged typing away on computers Luscious greenery filling fresh air into…

Silence

Loneliness defeaning me Thoughts left unshared keeping me awake as i lay on my bed wondering, where are you? staring at the night sky wishing upon every star for the…

Will i ever??

Are you hidden inside? my mind,it wonders Am i ever going to meet you? my heart it races Travelled from mountains afar I make my way everyday Hoping that “Today”…

Slow down….

dont stare at the clock dont worry about tomorrow let time stand still till your vision is clear. halt right there catch your breath and look around see what your…

what more could i ask for?

Free as a bird i wanna fly and roam the world whisper to the stars filling in the night sky say hello to the sun during the day what more…

Will i-Part II

Will i ever be the same person i was, Before i met you? Will i ever go back to how i was, Before you came into my life?

LOVE WORDS

It’s only ideas that I remember,that hound me, day and night, threatening that they come to me only once, And if not put on paper, will leave and take with…

At times….

At Times . . . At times I want to say so many things.. At times I want to tell him how special he is..

a lot of

A lot of pain For Something I have gained Could I have gained without it? A lot of hurt For A lifetime of joy Is that what life is all…

Speed

Sounded like so much fun Driving around in the sun. So young and sweet Always laughing and ready to greet. Went off in her car Not knowing death was not…

you mean so much to me

You mean so much to me And I just wanted you to know how much I care…… You have helped me to find a special outlook on life , And…

Auto ride in chennai

Oh,talking about Auto’s reminds me of what happened last nite(no,am not being self absorbed..heheheh) :):):):):):):):) .. after i got into that auto outside of Anokhi,the driver instead of taking a…

Only for you!!

You’ve allowed me to experience something very hard to find unconditional love that exists in my body, soul, and mind. “I have smiled in my life… I have felt emotions…

Lost Friend

I see your smile I hear your voice I know your mind For i am your friend Sister, friend and colleague Are roles i have dorned for you Keeping you…

Sleepless nights

Making its way into the sky the moon it shines so bright Stars aplenty, to keep it company all through the long lonely night. As i lay here on my…

Destiny

The day you walked into my life,sleep walked out The minute i fell in love with you, reality flew out the window The moment i knew you were mine, life…

what they are.

Distance between us Seemingly far Mere numbers, is what they are. Towns and cities keeping us apart Mere names, is what they are. Work and commitments Tying us down Mere…

What?Where?Who?When?Why?….

What?Where?Who?When?Why?…. What is it that i am looking for? Where do i search? Who do i turn to? When will this hunt end? Why is it taking so long?

Eternity

I smile whenever I think of all the special moments we share; Sometimes, I think it is a dream — The love you give me could not be; But then…

Please stay!

Blank pages in a notebook filled up with words so sweet yet painful. You,who walked into my life, opening the doors of my “once” Empty heart, filling it to the…

Real friend…

A real friend is :- Someone who knows what you need before you say it Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry Someone who truly listens when…

Love Letter

Dear Sweet One~! Wish i could write you a letter Wish i could make your day better Will i be able to express? Feelings of mine,i wanna confess.

90/10 Secret

It Will Change Your Life The 90/10 secret is incredible! Very few know and apply this secret. The result? Millions of people are suffering undeserved stress, trials, problems, and heartache.

The Mystery of Love

The Mystery of Love Author: Joanne Everett Why should one and one alone in all the world mean so much, and cause the heart to miss a beat by glance…

24 things!!

1. Your presence is a present to the world. 2. You’re unique and one of a kind. 3. Your life can be what you want it to be. 4.

Is There Really a Prince Charming?

Is There Really a Prince Charming? Chicken Soup for the Soul A lot of girls grow up thinking that a Prince Charming roams the skies and the plains just waiting…

Daddy’s little girl -Chicken soup

Daddy’s Little Girl “Will you tell Daddy for me?” That was the worst part. At seventeen, telling my mom I was pregnant was hard enough, but telling my dad was…

The Search

A destiny of dreams and unknown desire Burning within me like coals on fire. Searching and groping, looking behind endless doors Cannot see the dreams of unknown shores.

unspoken words

Turn my face away From eyes that speak, All your hearts’ miseries, Of words refusing your lips. Time,it flies past Sweeping along memories, held of tight in my heart.

book of memories

book of memories Hidden in the attic, all the way upstairs, is something very special, that I would like to share. My hopes, my dreams, old photographs, of good times…

Beat the heat!!!

It is hot outside, it’s burning, it’s flaming, but inside it is cool Summer,its always Hot. Beat the heat, Have some ice cream, play in the shade or go Swimming…

Mirror Mirror

Mirror Mirror by Leslie Callejas Mirror-mirror on the wall show me what you see if you really reflect it all show every piece of me behind my eyes, behind my…

Saturday evening with Coffee and words

Saturday Eve!! 14th May 05 5pm ………… It was just another hot and humid day in Chennai as it always is. Am sure just like me, the others were looking…

If…..

If Speaking the truth is a sin I’d be lost for words, If Missing you every day is wrong I’d be crushed by grief, If Giving up being happy means…

Nice?

Nice? Be Nice Be polite the voice echos deep within me i nod- i shake my head I am always nice, arent i? what about when i hurt when i…

Judge

some are tall some are short some are fair some are dusky some are just there why do we stare why do we care is there a winner?

Best Day of my LIfe!!

Best day of my Life!! I was running late for school on Monday morning, hurriedly wore the uniform that Mother had ironed and laid out.

Just another friend!!

You were just another friend But when I got to know you, I let my heart unbend. I’ve fallen in love with you and I’ll never let you go I…